Problem with a girl

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Gareth_Boyd, Feb 23, 2007.

  1. #1
    Hey,

    I'm a teenager and I went out with this girl I know, and I like her again. But problem is, before we were going out she was all happy and excited when we talked on MSN or in person and when we did go out she was like that. But after we stopped going out that has completely stopped.

    I feel like theres something wrong with me now. I don't understand. I think she fancys some other boy now and I just can't take it... I know I won't get her back. Anytime I try to meet up with her, she always has an excuse.

    Maybe theres just something wrong with me. I don't know. :(
     
    Gareth_Boyd, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  2. noppid

    noppid gunnin' for the quota

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    #2
    Call Dr. Phil.
     
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  3. Gareth_Boyd

    Gareth_Boyd Well-Known Member

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    ? I posted for help, not jokes.
     
    Gareth_Boyd, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  4. Jelf

    Jelf Banned

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    #4
    What does this mean "But after we stopped going out that has completely stopped."??

    I think you should give her some space and still talk to her but not seem as interested (though you are).

    maybe it will work, good luck :)
     
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  5. 8everything

    8everything Peon

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    #5
    Some girls are like that;) there's nothing wrong with you, its just that you guys aren't compatible.., don't worry about it:) I'll add a cliche and say that there are tons of fish in the sea lol.

    ;) you'll feel less blue as time passes
     
    8everything, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  6. w3bmaster

    w3bmaster Notable Member

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    #6
    Girls no one can understand them not even them :(

    I'm sick of it today a nice girl i liked a lot startied crying when i made her a present :( she cryed becouse i'm to nice and she can't be i'm sick of this ...
     
    w3bmaster, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  7. Zerosleep

    Zerosleep Established User

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    #7
    Hey man very sad same thing happened with me but the problem was she wanted to concentrate on her studies :(
    Anyways I think you must give her some time and talk to her in person and all will go fine
    Cheers
     
    Zerosleep, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  8. 8everything

    8everything Peon

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    #8
    Right! I'm a girl and I think girls are confusing as well lol.

    Tears of joy? hmm, even I don't understand that situation:rolleyes:
     
    8everything, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  9. iatbm

    iatbm Prominent Member

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    Man screw her ... there are better girls for you out there. I know it is hard and heart is screwing you at this moment. Go out get drunk with your friends and all will be better. Then you go hunting the next day .... to the library maybe ;)
     
    iatbm, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  10. tesla

    tesla Notable Member

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    #10

    It is a waste of time trying to figure out women. You are much better focusing on making money online. I tell you what........you have your own online business right?

    Instead of going through headaches trying to deal with women, just do what I do: go to www.theeroticreview.com and hire and escort. She will visit you, and once you're done with her, she'll leave. On this website, you will find the most beautiful women in the world.

    They will be your companion for a fee. Trust me, its worth it. When I want a woman, I just pay for. Instead of going through all the headaches that other guys go through, I focus on building my business.

    Once you have enough money, you can buy a trophy wife, and you'll both live happily ever after. :)

    Don't hunt.........just pay and be done with it. Spend more time "hunting" for ways to make money online. Once you have money, the women come like flies...........trust me. Broke guys waste their time hunting. Celebrities and men with money pay for high priced escorts and go one with their lives......

    I've been screwed so many times by women I've met.........and I don't mean "scew" in a good way. The day I decided to start hiring escorts, my life became so much better......

    Also, you should try flying to Rio, Costa Rica, Thailand, or eastern Europe. Spend enough time with those ladies and you'll forget about chasing moronic women, and trying to figure them out.
     
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  11. procrastinator

    procrastinator Peon

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    #11
    theres nothing wrong with you laddie, maybe you are mistaken she might be busy with something , if not then try find out all about the girl , what she likes and hates , think on that work on that , somehow squeeze in some time with her , between clasess, lunch break whatever you can get , and talk to her all those things.

    :| hitch
     
    procrastinator, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  12. theseokit

    theseokit Banned

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    #12
    Keep your chin up man, we are all gods creations and unique in our own way! Their is a perfect match out their for you, and god will bring that person into your life!

    God bless!
     
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    #13
    gd luck with yr relationship. hope u get better soon. there are a lot of better gals out there. Dont give up the whole forest for a mere tree. :)
     
    vincentv, Feb 23, 2007 IP
  14. ShiftChip

    ShiftChip Well-Known Member

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    #14
    It’s going to be hard since you have a shit base already established.

    You didn’t give enough detail on the situation so I can’t really help you that much.
    From your post I can say this:

    Talking online is weak…. Flirting in person is 100% better. This way you can use kino (flirt through touch) which works wonders.
    Your showing way too much interest. Girls love attention, so don’t give them it.

    Like I said, I can’t really tell you how to patch things up… Not enough info on your part.

    So… until I get more info here is a few pointers:
    - NEVER put a girl on a pedestal, if anything put your self on that pedestal… Never give full compliments, every compliment should contain a negative.
    Example: “That shirt looks really nice on you, but would have looked a lot better with the jeans you wore yesterday”.
    - Never put your self down. “Maybe there’s just something wrong with me. I don't know” Umm? No there’s something wrong with her. She must be blind if she can’t see the great traits (?) You have.
    - Make her think of you! – Don’t wear axe… Emotion is attached to scent. A girl will have many emotions attached to these common scents already, maybe good, neutral, or bad.
    - I could tell you so much more but I don’t have much time. If you want I’ll send you a link to my PUA (Pick up Artist) site when I get the content up.
     
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    EGS Notable Member

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    #15
    Well, you can always find a nice rope... :)
     
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  16. w3bmaster

    w3bmaster Notable Member

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    Nope tears of sadness :( that's the problem ohh well i'm sick i don't need any more a girl only trubles ....
     
    w3bmaster, Feb 23, 2007 IP
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    Then the best thing to do is just forget about this girl.
     
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  18. temyong

    temyong Banned

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    #18
    Find another chick dude.
     
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    #19
    all you people who ask the OP to forget her and move on, you guys are HEARTLESS. :(

    to the OP - what do you mean by 'after we stopped going out'? do you mean after you two are no longer in a relationship?
     
    devin, Feb 23, 2007 IP
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    #20
    Girls are fickle creatures... idk guess its the hormones or something... anyway, just relax. Be there if she needs you, talk to her when she can. Don't expect her to be excited every time you talk, just talk. Just act like friends. If it is meant to be it will work out. And if you and her don't go the long term, than just chill, your one is out there. It's okay. Rejection happens, just don't get overwhelmed. You have your pals for a reason, hang with them and they will help take your mind off her :p
     
    Jargenhunter, Feb 23, 2007 IP