Is it OK if I send a private message to user directing him/her to visit one of my sites or buy something if they are looking for it in any thread? Or is this considered to be PM spamming.
That would be OK but it would depend on how you word it. Leave the sales pitch out I guess. But why not post it in the original thread so all can benefit?
Personally, I hate when I post something then I get a PM later from someone offering to sell me something similar.
I've never gotten a personal message from the son of god before! I might keep it there for a while. I wouldnt read it though, cuz I'd be scared I might go blind
OK, I'll add one thing to it. IF they ARE looking for it, with ARE being not WERE, i.e. looking for it in the past 60 days or so and the thread did not indicate they already found it.