Just incase paypal give's me trouble some day is it possible to accept and send paypal payments with one of thier partners such as 2checkout etc ?
do you mean that u can use paypal without Register account with them ? if u mean it , i'll say it's impossible .
depends what kind of payment methods you are going to select or buyer going to select, moneybookers.com is good choice. authorize.net etc
In Brief: You can not receive the payment without paypal if the other party wants to pay via paypal. In all cases, both the parties should have same accounts. Like both Paypals both Moneybookers etc.
So you could accept with 2checkout and send with xoom im just saying in case i ever get banned for no reason i could continue working
Reason im asking is right now i have no problem with paypal but i heard you can even get suspended for paying unverified accounts so im guessing almost anyone can get suspended