if i use a pop up on my splash page then use Google on the index page is that violating there TOS? user types url - splash page loads - user click enter - pop up pops up - user now on index page with google page with ads
If I understood it correctly, then yes, that should be fine. So long as the pop-up is not on the same page as the Google ad it's okay.
its loads in the cross section... once they click enter the codes on the splash page tho not the index page with the google ads
I think you should post your URL so we can see it and doesn't give you any wrong advice based on assumptions
it's ok but i have realised that there is "MySpace Codes And Layouts" label above the google ads. this may be a problem. you must look it