The upper site doesn't look masculin, it's concept is men doens't it?? You must make it mor manly. Not just spider
The website design looks all right, but there are way too many ads and I don't see why the header image seems to be Spider-Man 3 related. Blogspot isn't really the best service provider for a serious blog; I'd suggest buying some proper webspace.
The spider man header doesn't seem to make sense with what your site is about. Great header just doesn't fit I guess.