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Once a cheater, always a cheater?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by me4you, Sep 3, 2010.

  1. #1
    Hi there, Relationship Advice: is it true once a cheater always a cheater? I believe that people have the ability to change. but its higher possible to cheat again for a cheater in my opinion.

    please share, its better to let us know sometime from your life experience :)
    Stories welcomed.
     
    Last edited: Sep 3, 2010
    me4you, Sep 3, 2010 IP
  2. saint11

    saint11 Peon

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    #2
    I think it depends on the circumstance of the person who has cheated.

    For instance if he/she cheated because they were unhappy in there relationship, perhaps one day they will be happy and no longer cheat.

    On the other hand if the person is just a complete idiot they will carry on cheating because they think its alright to do this.
     
    saint11, Sep 3, 2010 IP
  3. aemiliya

    aemiliya Guest

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    I'm little bit agree with saint opinion, but not totally agree with him. Sometimes, they cheat only one time. but we never trust them. I hope you are agree with me.
     
    aemiliya, Sep 3, 2010 IP
  4. Grimm

    Grimm Peon

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    #4
    Cheating is a bad vice, pretty similar with smoking. Once a smoker, always a smoker.

    The possibility of a person to cheat again is highly possible IF they have already done it or tried it before.
     
    Grimm, Sep 3, 2010 IP
  5. *pushkar*

    *pushkar* Well-Known Member

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    #5
    Well said. Yes its just like a bad habit which is very difficult to stop
     
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    AzzidReign Well-Known Member

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    #6
    Depends on if they learned a lesson the first time they did it. If it was something that was recurring rather than a 1 time thing I also think makes a difference.
     
    AzzidReign, Sep 3, 2010 IP
  7. krolbiz

    krolbiz Peon

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    #7
    What about.... a truthful is always true??
     
    krolbiz, Sep 3, 2010 IP
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    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    #8
    It is impossible to say, depends on too many variables and also human nature itself isn't predictable. The only way is to observe yourself, ask others to observe the person and generate an opinion.
     
    wisdomtool, Sep 3, 2010 IP
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    I am a firm believer that people can change as long as they put their mind to it...or meet someone that plays them at their own game!
     
    ross88guy, Sep 4, 2010 IP
  10. Rhiannon

    Rhiannon Active Member

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    #10
    What I cannot understand is why anyone would want to stay with someone who has cheated on them. What they did is not only disrespectful to you but also should not be something that is forgiven. If a person feels the need to cheat with another, its telling you that they dont want you anymore.

    I would kick them to the curb as once trust is gone in a relationship, then its gone.
     
    Rhiannon, Sep 4, 2010 IP
  11. belltower

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    #11
    I used to use cheats when playing video games but I don't anymore. See, I am a reformed cheater, so this thread title is not a truism in my opinion. Also, STEALING BASES IN BASEBALL IS NOT CHEATING!!
     
    belltower, Sep 4, 2010 IP
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    Mega B Well-Known Member

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    #12
    I guess its fair to assume that once someone has cheated they could well do it again,alot of people dont get caught and i doubt if anyone one a open forum will tell the real truth anyway.Cheating has and always will happen its inbuild in the human race and as long as man walks the planet it will happen,most of the time you only hear about the people who have been caught cheating what percentage of the population actual cheat we will never find out we can only guess really.I would never disclose personal details like that on a open forum the same i guess as telling people how much you earn revenue wise its just not done.
     
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  13. EvanP

    EvanP Banned

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    #13
    Wrong. People do have the ability to change their ways.
     
    EvanP, Sep 4, 2010 IP
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    #14
    I cheat while playing games sometimes, but I won't cheat people in business!
     
    krolbiz, Sep 4, 2010 IP
  15. Annel

    Annel Well-Known Member

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    #15
    It's really different...

    In most cases cheater is always cheater, it's just a habit for someone and mindset for another
    however sometimes people don't even know they do or just occurred in such circumstances that they forced to or followed the trend

    Anyway, I wouldn't judge without knowing the details and yes, I tend to give second chance to everyone :)
     
    Annel, Sep 4, 2010 IP
  16. Annel

    Annel Well-Known Member

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    I didn't think we are talking about sexual cheating here :))))))))))))))
     
    Annel, Sep 4, 2010 IP
  17. bridalcrasher

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    #17
    sometimes I cheat when playing video games.. :) once cheater always a cheater? I don't agree..
     
    bridalcrasher, Sep 4, 2010 IP
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    #18
    My current girlfriend cheated on me a long time ago, then realized I'm her life and has been the most faithful person since.
     
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    #19
    When a person is addicted to something then its very difficult for him to come in its previous stage because he became more used to that thing..............The same way cheaters always remains cheaters.....
     
    Brisha, Sep 5, 2010 IP
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    #20
    It depends on the person..we cannot judge.
     
    yogesh22, Sep 5, 2010 IP