Just got a call from my father about my marriage.So he has seen a girl for me to marry this nov' and he said she is a doctor too..(oh i'm a doc too) Today i'm just going to see the girl,I was just curious if she is beautiful and sexy.. May god help me ...
Sorry for putting me into this, but why do your Dad chooses your girl? Can't you do it on your own and choose the girl you like? Kate
What about inteligence ? that must count more then anything And i don't get why your father call it for you ? can't you date your own ?
Oh i don't really have time to look for a girl now...and my father was just asking if i like her or not,so thats simple if i like i say oh yea if not sorry dad... yea this is our hindu culture but this doesn't mean that you have to marry the girl your parents choose... oh she is from my country "nepal" have you heard it? if now its near india. to make it clear its between india,pakistan and china. oh yea i agree with you i just meant is she is good manner and beautiful ,in addition sexy that would be great..
oh she is a doctor "a medical profession like me".I have bad days going on so my father just wanted to call me and in hindu religion there is somthing like worshiping god to kick away my bad days.. i'm planning for USMLE exams so ask something for god to Pass my USMLE test....oh its hindu tradition by the way..
I don't care about that. It is not your parents business to choose a wife for you. You would marry her, not your parents!
yup i agree with you ,they haven't choose a wife for me,they have just listed some good family background girls so i could check them out ,if i find then good i'll marry if not find other whats the run .
atleast this culture prevents so many divorce! right, after all with this culture we face less ammount of divorce and every one is happy! other cultures are jelous perhaps
I understand how it works, but why should the parents of a person look for a girl to marry or, let me explain it in an other way. How can these men marry a woman , they don't know? Well I have a girlfriend since five years and I decided this year to marry her, after I found out what kind of personality she has, how her behaviors are and so on. Think about it! The kind of marriage the op explains sounds to me like woman shopping.