Now I am angry! Almost all the money i made (most IM product launches) is refunded.

Theres no getting rich quick with this stuff lol.

 

I am launching a product on Clickbank soon that will be a monthly membership so there is less likely to be refunds after the 1st month i think as people can see what they are getting

 

I will stick to my words and say that the best thing to promote is your own products.
If something goes wrong you can only blame it on yourself.

Also, until ClickBank does some more cleaning up of worthless products I would advise
you to play safe and only promote products you know will succeed.

 

Man that's why many super affiliates always suggested, If you want to promote any product then you must try that product before promoting.

How can you recommend any product to your readers without having personal experience with them.
So this is my advice to you please first try yourself and then promote

Otherwise next time your readers won't trust you again.

 

That's really terrible experience.
It is vital to choose the right product by various way such as niche analysis.

 

The only advice I can give you is to make sure the product offers value before putting your time into promoting it. I always go for established products with proven performance, this way you know what you're getting into.