This is what will happen, I have a new design being made for me... but I will apply the design myself
I would say that your blue is too aggressive. Try to add something contrasting to blur, also think about the readability of your site, you may want to start with the logo.
It hurts the eyes to look out. Calling a game site "No games allowed" doesn't really hit me as a great advertising scheme. Needs more games, and change the font you use
changed the first few pages of template... hopefully it is more pleasing now (adding more games soon... it's a pain staking process without a script... )