Hello. I am new to this forum and have a new website. I can use any input you have as this is my first attempt at a website. Thank you. The site is http://www.proselfdefenseproducts.com
I agree, everything is everywhere, you need some clear borders on collumns so users can find where everything is a little easier, maybe categories so navigation is easier.
You are trying to sell products, but the first thing I see on the site is an entire block of text and NO products. Get rid of the text. If you want to sell things, you need to make your home page look more like Amazon.com or an OSCommerce store where there are lots of products visible right away. Finally, your logo is giant, ugly, and is wasting a lot of space. Get rid of it!
you need to throw away your design, hire somebody for web design or you get design template from www mastertemplates com or www oswd org or google free design template.
Initially I had no idea what this website was for. Fill the front pages with products not text. Also, I think you need to rethink your header image...