Need your advice...

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Rezo, Mar 22, 2006.

  1. #1
    Well, let's put the problem like this, suppose I like a girl! We talk each day, in fact we're good friends, but what god damn to do to make this relation deeper!! Should I tell her something "specific"?






    P.S: I hope it wasn't to pathethic
     
    Rezo, Mar 22, 2006 IP
  2. Smyrl

    Smyrl Tomato Republic Staff

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    #2
    Ask her out on a date.
     
    Smyrl, Mar 22, 2006 IP
  3. Crazy_Zap

    Crazy_Zap Well-Known Member

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    #3
    It's going to tough, if not impossible, to go from friends to something more. It can be done, but's it's tough. You do need to drop a hint or two at the very least.
     
    Crazy_Zap, Mar 22, 2006 IP
  4. WhatiFind

    WhatiFind offline

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    #4
    What do you mean with specific?? There's not one magic word that will deepen your relationship..

    Hmmm... maby just one... three letters.. anyone??:D
     
    WhatiFind, Mar 22, 2006 IP
  5. iatbm

    iatbm Prominent Member

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    just do it man ....walk her, take her hand turn and kiss her...if nothing you can always come up with some excuse :)
     
    iatbm, Mar 22, 2006 IP
  6. Rezo

    Rezo Well-Known Member

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    Easy to say about the kiss lol...Any other ideas?
     
    Rezo, Mar 22, 2006 IP
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    cyclelicious Peon

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    #7
    How far along are you WRT being comfortable around each other? Be yourself, but here are some ideas that you can brainstorm from:

    * Visit at a coffee shop. Just talk, but be sure to listen more than you talk. Chicks generally aren't interested in listening to you bragging about yourself.

    * Take her out to lunch at a casual dining place.

    * Take her out to dinner at a nice restaurant. For God's sake DRESS UP and SMELL GOOD. Buy new clothes if you have to and get a haircut/style.

    * Take her to a movie (a chick flick, NOT action/adventure/scifi).

    * Rent a DVD (a chick flick, NOT action/adventure/scifi) and invite her over.
     
    cyclelicious, Mar 22, 2006 IP
  8. Rezo

    Rezo Well-Known Member

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    Errm, before that, I need to try to talk more to her...What topics can I? Or what can I tell her?






    P.S: Pathethic huh?
     
    Rezo, Mar 22, 2006 IP
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    iatbm Prominent Member

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    pathetic yes
     
    iatbm, Mar 22, 2006 IP
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    iatbm Prominent Member

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    just do it man like i said !!!
     
    iatbm, Mar 22, 2006 IP
  11. Rezo

    Rezo Well-Known Member

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    I know...But still, that's the situation...
     
    Rezo, Mar 22, 2006 IP
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    Sorry I'm useless, no help for you...But it's not pathetic..

    I wish you luck...;)
     
    GRIM, Mar 22, 2006 IP
  13. Basoone

    Basoone Peon

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    ask her if she's married? :D LOL

    Well ask her about her day and about things she loves to do, they always love to talked about themselves (based on experience). Find something that you both like ;)

    i hope that helps :)
     
    Basoone, Mar 22, 2006 IP