MY "very sad" story

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by sbongo, Jan 10, 2009.

  1. #1
    About 3 weeks ago, when I went overseas to visit my parents , I asked my wife to take over my websites a while. She was supposed to just handle my websites and check out my earnings like every few days.

    In the first week, she was still calling me to update me about what's happening. At the beginning of the second week, she just stopped calling me all out a sudden.

    I tried calling her for several days but she still did not pick up my call.

    I was extremely worried and headed back only to find out that my wife had eloped with another guy and passed all my websites to him!

    It was then I remembered that she was behaving weirdly but I didn't realize that she will elope!

    She even left me a note saying that I could keep my house but she will fight over all my asset (my websites) in court when we are going through Divorce.

    I am left with nothing now. Just wish to tell the rest of the people here to be wary of your wife - especially if she is behaving weirdly.
     
    sbongo, Jan 10, 2009 IP
  2. Proximity

    Proximity Banned

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    #2
    Wow. How long have you been married?

    Shes going to fight over your websites? Is that your only source of income?
     
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  3. sbongo

    sbongo Peon

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    #3
    Yeah, my websites are my only source of income. And I have to rebuild them all over again.
     
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    Pinayjade Member

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    #4
    Wow that's really sad but is her guy a webmaster too? Why did you left your websites for her to maintain if you thought she was behaving weirdly?

    If you were already having troubles , you should have tried to talk about the problems first it first rather than leave it hanging there. Open communication is the key, no relationship would work if you cannot talk freely about the problems.
     
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  5. Proximity

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    #5
    How long were you married?
     
    Proximity, Jan 10, 2009 IP
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    ActiveFrost Notable Member

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    #6
    Never ever mix business with something else :(
     
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    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    #7
    Nothing to be sad about, at least for the price of a few web sites, you know the true character of your wife. It is better to lose a few web sites now than much more of your properties later in life. It must be a horrible experience, imagine losing your wife and income. Hope you can rebuilt your web sites again ASAP. Best of luck and may you have a better wife and better web sites next time round.
     
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    #8
    I would only be sad about your websites and the time you wasted, and nothing else.

    But you can still file a case for the websites to get them back?
     
    Proximity, Jan 10, 2009 IP
  9. justinlorder

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    It is one of the worst situation . However I hope you will have new start in the new year of 2009 .
     
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  10. Kerosene

    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    #10
    How much is your house worth?
    How much are your websites worth?
     
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    digitalduke Notable Member

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    #11

    Dude, sorry to hear that, lets see that website. :rolleyes:
    People now fight over assets, even for websites? That is ahh.. weird!
     
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    RightMan Notable Member

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    #12
    Your websites must be making tons of money for her to leave your house for you and instead, swing away with just websites.

    It is incredible that she figured out your revenue potential from your websites in just a day !!! :eek:
     
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    #13
    Man that's really sad. You wife must really know something about webmastering to plan this all out.
     
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    workathomeshop Notable Member

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    #14
    Wow that is pretty harsh, I'm so sorry you have to go through this.
    Most people don't think about small things like this when in love, so not your fault at all..

    Best wishes for the future :)
    Samantha
     
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    freespace Well-Known Member

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    #15
    thats bad news

    Don't they have internet where your parents live?
     
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    #16
    Man that sucks, sorry to hear it hope you can get it sorted out bro.
     
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    #17
    Very sad story but you can ask your hosting company to block the password and give you a new password.
    She is just threatening you but i dont think she can claim the websites.
     
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  18. Brae

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    #18
    After thinking about it, let her have the sites re-start everything from scratch, build a bigger site make more money and laugh at her:D
     
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  20. musichangout.com

    musichangout.com Well-Known Member

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    #20
    Thats so sad, i think your wife should know some thing about webmastering.
     
    musichangout.com, Jan 11, 2009 IP