My boss paid some cash for a video about the Cadillac escalade. The problem is we cannot host this video on our server. We put a past video (about the CTS-V) on YOUTUBE and then built a page with the video embedded. Well the video has over 10k views but really no traffic has been driven to our site. Is there a way or a site, where I can upload the video, make it private to the public and search engines and embed it on my site? heres the first youtube video: http://www.youtube.com/user/JazelAuto1 and where it exists on my site: http://www.chicagolandcadillacdealers.com/j/i/27946/CadillacComingSoon.html
You could make a page on your site private to search engines and the public, requiring password access. But I think you want the video to not be public on your hosting site (youtube, metacafe, etc). If that is the case, I don't think you'll find it for free. Maybe free if they have commercials or ads in the video. If you have any budget for this, you could pay for a hosting account online and host the video there, but the rest of your site would stay as is.
Heck, What kind of video is it? If it isn't porn, I could put it on my hosting account for a fixed price and would only have to renegotiate if the bandwidth became a problem. In what period of time did you receive the 10K views? How large is the video's filesize? I only use about 1-2% of my allotted bandwidth at the moment.
look into Vimeo+ It's 60$ a year, and it has some custom embedding options that should allow this. PLUS, they support streaming HD content, much superiour to Youtube's 'HD' mp4 videos, and they have less site-traffic than youtube, so even if it wasn't necessarily private, you still wouldn't have as many hits. But, I think you're going about it backwards! 10k views on youtube is EXCELLENT! I mean, for all of the visitors who went to your site (lets assume 200), 100% of those site visitors saw your site and the embedded youtube video. If you had a private video host, this number of total people who saw it would remain 200. But with youtube, you'd have an extra 9800 people who saw the video without having gone to your site. Throw a little site branding into the video at the end and direct people to your site with links in the video info description and BAM! free advertising. What you're calling a 'problem' and willingto pay to get rid of is what all other business consider 'advertising' and pay money to get. You'd be a total fool to throw that away when you already have that.