My girlfriend is cheating on me :(

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by nosleepno, Jun 16, 2008.

  1. #1
    Sorry, just had to vent somewhere. Been with her for 4 years now, everything was fine (I thought). Now she is still seeing some other guy. Bullshit.

    I think I should have re-phrased that title to say EX girlfriend.
     
    nosleepno, Jun 16, 2008 IP
  2. montiuk

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    #2
    Know how you feel buddy was with my girl the exact same time for 4 years or I should say fiance, the crazy things drink makes you do though no excuse mind.

    Anyway il say the usual theres plenty more fish in the sea you will get over her in time I know you wont want to but heck I was the same.

    Sorry to hear buddy.
     
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  3. mimm

    mimm Banned

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    #3
    Bad things happened.
    Just let her go, find someone better. Be strong.
     
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    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    #4
    You are correct to make her your EX. It is lucky you discover it early, if you are married to her, that would even be worse. Just forget about her, a lot of good girls around.
     
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  5. donlin

    donlin Active Member

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    #5
    Had it happen to me too a few times and I feel for your pain. Once you get hurt too much you'll be a lot better off as it'll change you and you'll be able to cope with the world around you much better. I know you can't see that now, but trust me it'll come.
     
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    #6
    Good for you. You deserve better.
     
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  7. Ikaruga

    Ikaruga Active Member

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    #7
    Do her best friends.
     
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    5ive Well-Known Member

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    #8
    I agree to that bro


    I think there is a magic thing between 3 and 4 years, if you can pass that you have found your soulm8, I came to 3 and half until she fell and a guy happened to fell on her and ............. yes you get me :eek:
    My revenge to her was to visit all the countries (except UK and Portugal and some mini states) in Europe and have "fun" :D
     
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    #9
    4years of relationship is too long for girlfriend and boyfriend. Why you're not proposed here to get married? Maybe because you have a doubt, because you are not fall in love with her, because there is something wrong with your relationship since first. The truth is girl want to hear the boy of proposing to get married. And maybe you didn't express it to her. Am I right? tell me don't lie. So, now this is the time for you to make up your mind! Let her go..... Okay? lol. good luck.
     
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    #10
    Let he go and remember that you should feel sorry for her because she is going to lose a gem. :D This is the way I think.... So keep your spirits high and dont worry. You will find someone more beautiful, understand and adaptable. :)
     
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    getjimmy Prominent Member

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    #11
    Move on and find a new GF.
     
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    #12
    I agree! Why not? Do all of them in one night? :p
     
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    #13
    It happens to the best of us bro. Enjoy your freedom while it lasts.
     
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    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    #14
    What if her friends are all ugly :)

     
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    #15

    we've all been there. Move on, don't forgive her.
    Actuyally, learn to hate her, to be ready by when she comes back with all the regret and feeling o guilt.
     
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    She would be called ex now
     
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    #17
    Just break her relationship...
     
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    #18
    I think we've all been thru it.. I was with my last GF almost 4 years total and she decided to go back to her ex-husband. It could take a long time to get over her but remember, all things eventually pass... best wishes to you!
     
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    You find a better person someday
     
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    real_skinner Notable Member

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    #20
    wOw... I thought I was the only one... But here I am reading this thread and I am looking back in my past. I know how it felt bro. Hope you will get over it soon. Things like this never happens to every one but still you are fortunate that now your FREE from her. And should be thankful that you guys where not yet married. It will be a disaster if that happens in your married life.

    Anyway GoodLuck bro... And think that there are lots of girls around :D
     
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