My girl friend and I will look for a job this year. She often doubts her ability so that she becomes very sad or angry sometimes... I've tried to let her relax herself but I can't. Just now she sent short messages to tell me that she hates everything, can't do anything. She often says she can't do anything well but I know she is a clever girl indeed. I don't know what should I do to help her. I love her.
I sympathise with you because my girlfriend is the same in some respects. She is extremely intelligent and has proven so on many occasions but has a very poor self image which causes her to constantly doubt herself. She is getting better though because we sat down and talked about it and I got her to make a list of all the things she feels she is ok at and all the things that I thought she was great at and lots of things between our two lists matched up. So now she is building on this and gearing up for a career change.
Take her to some exotic place to fresh her mind and keep on motivating her every time .Become her biggest support.