So this is going to be sort of an odd post. You may notice that this is also my first/welcome post!! I've been a long time lurker but this is the first time I have really asked for help over the internet. So here's the scoop: a friend of mine(and by friend I actually mean friend!) has gotten a no contact order put on him by his crazy exgirlfriend. They had been dating for about three years I think when out of the blue he found out that she had been cheating on him for the last two months. What makes matters worst was that he had proposed to her and they were planning their engagement together. He was really excited about it and would constantly talk about it with all of us. So being the little **** that she was, instead of apologizing and breaking off the engagement and having everyone think she was a whore - she told everyone(including their families) that he had started hitting her and that she couldn't deal with it anymore and thus got the no contact order on him. I know my friend and went to high school with him and know for a fact that he would never lay a finger on her and that he really did love her ALOT. He actually even had a very strong "you dont hit girls" stance so that fact that she would make that up is just wrong. He wasn't right for about a week after and finally decided to call her and ask her what the hell was going on. He got sentenced to 10 jails in jail because of it. He asked me for advice on how he could talk to her or give her a message without getting in trouble. Its been about three months from the first deal and he just isn't right and feels that he has a right to get an explanation from her. Hes worried that if he just plain calls her up anonymously or something like that, they would automatically believe her since he violated it once already and plead guilty I think. ____ SO basically I am asking you guys what the most ridiculous/far fetched way to contact someone is(within reason). I think that if the way she was contacted by him was so outrageous that it just wouldn't hold up in court and get dismissed. I really dont see him moving on from this anytime soon and we are all kind of worried about suicide at this point. Any ideas would be really appreciated! Sorry for such the long post, I figured a back story was necessary. Thanks and great forum!!