Somewhere inbetween I entered my old anythingblack.wordpress.com into it and now I cant log into the .org admin panel because it keeps on directing me to wordpress.com? I dont know how i did it but i cant even update my blog from the www.anythingblack.net site because it keeps redirecting me away help PLEASE
What page redirects you? If it is something in the dashboard you can download a fresh copy of wordpress and reupload everything except the wp-content folder. That should fix anything wrong with the dashboard or how wordpress runs.