I'm married. Yes, I flirt. My wife also flirts. This is healthy, I know this because I read it in "Psychology Today" Flirting is definitely good for self confidence
To flirting with other when you are in relationship, you have to know the limitation of yourself, your partner and others, because the one you flirting with, maybe she or he is not taking serious, or she or he is taking serious, and you should respect yourself when you expect someone respect you. Flirting is not about faithful or unfaithful, just something that people will do all the time, and some people don't flirting too. Just personal thing.. If my partner flirting with others, I will walk away, and/or talk to someone I know. Don't have to flirting with others when she/he does, because you don't have to do when someone does.
Immoral? Where did you get that from? Morals are a personal decision not something someone else tells you. However, if you are listening to someone else, where did you get that. I know the ten commandments and I never seen though shall not flirt when married. I have also read many other religious books and have not found that. Can you please direct me to your source?
That's very true and as a I stated in an earlier post, it depends on the couple. Some couples are very jealous of their husband/wife and flirting is off limits. But I think flirting is definately healthy in some relationships.
If she can flirt, so as I! At the beginning I will tell this to my spouse, if you think you can flirt so do remember that I could do it as well and dont say anything if I do it more often than you. hehe
Me and my wife understand that flirting is ok as long as there is never any intentions to take it any further, I fully trust that my wife will not go of with someone else and she has the same trust in me. we understand that its natural to look at over people and think "she/he looks good" and that its only natural to flirt with someone if you are attracted to them. I love my wife and would never think of taking it any further and think is partly because we allow it. people can flirt with out even realising that they are doing it, its that natural. I think it can be good for a relationship as long as both partners know it goes on and it is never took any further then a little bit of flirting in conversation.
As long as you know what you are doing, then flirting with other is ok. Just some other people who take thing serious, is really scary and jealous
Flirting with other is liked by everyone...but when catch their spouse flirting....couldn't stand the situation........
hi! that your spouse flirt anyone infront of you can makes you jealous. but do you want your spouse to be silent at a party or when meeting someone?
A relationship is complicated..you have to be in the driving seat and control everything. As long as you're a good driver, there won't be any accident. The same with your relationship.
It actually depends on the mentality of the married couples. Some couples go advanced with intimating extra relationships like wife swapping or such while some are very restricted about it. It also depends on the relationships between the couples. For e.g. if the spouse is not satisfying his/her partner, then the partner may start flirting with others. While today's society is advancing with the new generation couples, nothing can be predicted.