Marriage is made in heaven, but has to be found on Earth is it true

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    Marriage is made in heaven, but has to be found on Earth is it true or false:)
     
    ali007, Feb 12, 2010 IP
  2. vibinhari

    vibinhari Notable Member

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    Doesnt that mean that I can only get married after I die?
     
    vibinhari, Feb 12, 2010 IP
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    Aquarezz Notable Member

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    #3
    What does it matter? I'm really not understanding what you're talking about man.. what if.. people won't get married in heaven anyways so :)
     
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    #4
    I don't understand. This is complicated shit.
     
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    kidsko Well-Known Member

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    #5
    I understand it a bit, but the way that the question was posed causes confusion
     
    kidsko, Feb 13, 2010 IP
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    itismine Active Member

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    #6
    are you thinking that a prophet is here who will answer this question what is happening in the heaven,
    all are normal people here who don't know anything about heaven!!!!!!!!!
     
    itismine, Feb 14, 2010 IP
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    #7
    They say marraige is made in heaven.. This is actually a phrase, we can go on depth of this phrase, but simply speaking, actually it means, Allah is the one who make couples.. and its not that we need to find on earth, as such we dont need to go in search of our soulmate, its just, Allah makes our fate and makes couples, and somehow from Allah, we will just meet with the right one..
     
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    #8
    I respect your views. But I beg to differ... Allah the almighty doesn't do everything for us, Allah shows us the right way, we have a choice whether to follow it or not. Fate is the bridge we build to the one we love.. Allah guides us on our journey.. but we have to put in the effort
     
    vibinhari, Feb 14, 2010 IP
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    somehow you are right.. Allah made us so that we can do Ibaadat (worship ) of Allah, so that we can offer prayers five times a day, we can recite Qura'an. But Allah also give us this life to live it in our daily routine whatever we do, And Allah see us who loves Allah, who wanna go in the path of Allah.. in our busy daily routine life, who can manage few minutes to offer prayers.. Yes ofcourse Allah gave us mind to think.. in our life we have both right and wrong ways, its we who choose where to go, in a right path or in a wrong path. Allah already know everything, Allah knows all what we gonna do, but Allah never made someone to go on wrong path, its just Allah know whats cooking in someone's heart, Allah know what in our heart, Allah know what in our mind, Allah know what we gonna do. Yes, you are right, we need to put efforts to make our life better. And Allah knows the best for us. So many things we do ourself.. But really, this marriage thing Allah decides. Allah makes our couples. But yes efforts are required as well. For everything in our life, efforts are require, Allah promised ur Allah will take care of us to give us food so that we can live, but it doesn't mean that we do nothing, we need to work to access our livelihood.
     
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    I'm going to run this by the wife. Let's see what she says!
     
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    she's probably gonna say - take out the garbage and take a shower :(
     
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    #12
    I think so he wanna say that "Marriages decided in the heaven will be celebrated on Earth" ... Well it's a quote and most of the people believe in that because sometimes you don't even know the person you get married and that's all decided by God in heaven .. That does not mean we should not find the one and sit at home and he/she will come to us someday... We should keep our efforts in everything that is even decided for us because you never know what's gonna happen next :)
    PHYza
     
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    to be honest, i dont agree with this statement, that marriages decided in the heaven. I agree its a quote, but if you will try to understand this quote, specially in the light of islam, then as you are from pak, then you must know, heaven is like Jannah or english of Jannah or Jannat. you also must heard from your elders that Rishtai aasmanoun par bantai hain, i never heard Rishtai Jannat main bantai hain.. so this can be a quote or phrase that Marriages made in heaven. But if we try to understand this mean, then it means, Allah makes or decides marriages or Allah makes our couples. And Allah is everywhere.. But THEY SAY this phrase or quote in urdu, Rishtai aasmanoun par bantai hain..
     
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    #14
    ever you visited heaven??
     
    buchen, Feb 14, 2010 IP
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    No, marriage and its findings both happen on Earth, unless you somehow actually found a way to go to heaven and come back from it. Please, tell us how you managed to achieve such a feat.

    Either that, or marriage is made on Earth, but has to be found in heaven. :)
     
    shinigami, Feb 14, 2010 IP
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    #16
    Yes.
    I am supporting this statement because marriage is god gift.it is the mixing of two life together.so marriage is the made in heaven.
     
    dollarofakshay, Feb 14, 2010 IP
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    #17
    shit! i don't understand.
     
    mangliks, Mar 8, 2011 IP