what if you try to get with a chick while being married, but she turns you down. Just cause you didn´t do the deed (by her choice), would that NOT be cheating?
I just married before two months. I am happy with my wife and live good life. I never cheat to my wife.
For me,marriage is just only a piece of paper.As long as you understand each other well and you love each other,you're relationship will last longer without being married.
I strongly believe in marriage (which is perhaps why I am 33 and unmarried) I have been with my fiance for 5 years and he is consistently pressuring me to set date but I just can't do it. Why? because in my heart, I think we would end up getting divorced. While I love him, I also think I am outgrowing him in certain aspects (which wont allow me to internally committ) I never want a divorce so if I marry, I need to know it is my soulmate so I know I need to make changes in my life :-(
I always believing in faithfulness. I believe we all have our soulmate somewhere out there and when I feel I found mine, I will marry that person. I just don't know if my fiance is that one (which makes me believe that he is probably not) or maybe, I am just a committment phobe :-(
My marriage is the most important thing in the world to me. Why would I risk losing someone I love this much by betraying him ? I wouldn't.