Let me ask, can an affair be classified only if sex is involved? What about a continuous relationship with a member of the opposite sex that includes daily texting and phone calls on the way to work and home from work? Would you consider that an extramarital affair (although not sexual yet) Daily emotional intimacy could lead to more so do you consider that cheating?
Men are not meant to have sex with only one woman for the rest of their life. End of story. Ask yourself why you think otherwise. It would be like eating the same meal every day, even if it were 100% nutritious. Sure, you'll get by, but at what cost? Making the chef happy?
i think people in marriages should change the way they act about stuff and both people in the relationship should be able to ask their spouse for what they want and the spouse should be understanding and wanting to help. Whether that be more sex or not each mamber should be able to ask the other or communicate their concerns and what theyd like to change. It would be nice if you could explain your friends reasons for cheating on her man because in my eyes that's always messed up and mean to do to someone. I know that some guys can be very controlling and "oh , i'm too scared to tell him or address my concerns cause he'll get mad and not be cool and/or he'll want to break up" while almost always the case, you women gotta understand that YOU WANT the guy YOU'RE CHEATING ON, but it nmust be for reasons other than sex and what it usually is is financial stability. They are living with/in a relationship with a guy who has a good steady job and is active fun and well-to-do but they don't like the sex or in social situations, the female feels like her man isn't 'hot' enough and it makes her feel ugly. So, what does she do? She goes and gets some "reassurance" some "satisfaction" if you will by having a hot, risky, 'sinful' night with some dishy stranger that makes the girl feel sexy again. This makes the girl feel really good and when she comes home the original guy is still having a hard time because he knows something is wrong with the relationship (he doesn't know you boning someone else yet, he just knows something is wrong from your previous fights or whatnot) so he isn't all happy and on the same level as you having this aWesome behind the door sex. But i digress, cheating on someone can hurt them really really really really bad and can cause SERIOUS depression and I'm talking SERIOUS. You have to have a good group of friends that can help you get out of the TRENCH that getting cheated on can put yuo in mentally.. and same goes for guys cheating on girls ,it's very messed up and what you need to do is be a REAL MAN and go up to your spouse/girlfriend and tell her that you ust don't have the same feelings for her that you did and you feel like you need to have sex with someone else rather than act for the rest of your relationship just so that you can have some help financially and really mundayne unexciting sex with your spouse. Wow, i typed way too much do not read this if you don't like to read a long complaint
The answer to the question depends on the specific circumstances. There is a big difference between extramarital affairs when both parties are aware of it against where they are not.
Why would you ask this on DP , but still, no i dont think it is ok, imagine, would you like to be the one cheated...?
what you think about extramarital affairs? Why people do this? Is it really necessary for them because of their so called problematic married life?
Marriage is taken too lightly this day in age- when the going gets tough, more times than none, someone will seek 'greener pastures' elsewhere because they can't be bothered to work hard at their relationship. However, if you've tried everything to repair your marriage and you still find yourself unhappy / dissatisfied / feeling the urge to look elsewhere to satisfy your emotional or sexual needs etc. in your relationship, then the right thing to do would be to end that relationship before you begin something else with another human being. That's all there is to it.
No, external affairs are not acceptable in any situation. If you want to do that, then why you got married?