manage difficult time in life

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by topaffiliateprogram, Nov 15, 2006.

  1. #1
    how do you manage difficult time in life for example wat will you do if you found you have some life threatning disease or you found someone you love dying or you got robbed/killed or anything that is seriously bad ..... just imagine how scary it is just to imagine about it ? what will you do if thats really goonna happen you (pain of death or anything)?
     
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  2. grazie_web

    grazie_web Banned

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    Well, it depends on the situation... but whatever difficulties i hav been through, i never forget to call on God...i believe and trust Him, that's why i am still surviving... and also to my family and some are my friends... :)
     
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    Notorious Well-Known Member

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    time heals the deepest wounds,the best you can do is learn from the experience or cherish the loving memories :)
     
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    To tell the truth I don’t know what would I do. I imagine that it is unbelievably hard, and I know many people who addressed the God in such situations accepting the inevitability of the happed. I don't want to advertise any religious concepts. I think in such situations a person needs to do something that would fully involve a person directing all thoughts to those activities, away from the grief.
     
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  5. Kerosene

    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    Whenever something seriously wrong happens in my life (which thankfully isn't often), I just focus on the fact that even worse things are happening to millions of other people everyday. And whatever I'm going through, as horrible as it may seem to me, there's other people in the world who will never know the simple joys I get out of life everyday.

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    I never forget to call my mum.
     
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    I'm not to good at this i get dipressed and don't whant to see no one .....
     
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  7. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    How do you manage? You don't have a choice -- you just do. Our life isn't guaranteed -- we can walk across the street tomorrow and get hit by a car. We can walk across the street TODAY and be killed. We don't have a choice as far as when we live and when we die. Sure, it's scary. But it doesn't do any good to live in fear/concern of what *might* happen.

    Just live every day as if it were your last; tell the people you love that you love them and don't take your life for granted. You never know when it may be taken from you.
     
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  8. topaffiliateprogram

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    oh i just want smooth life with no suffering's ? possible or not ?

    calling god is good (no matter whats your religion) but question is does it work ? or you just try to diversify your thoughts from bad thing happening to you

    and everyone have a week point , and nature always hit you at your weak point . ( peoples who want healthy body never get it , peoples who want piece will get quarrel ) i just dont know why ?


    so what is life ?just earn money , have sex , get kids and die ? ( or die early with diesease or car accident or anything) ..... .... if nothing is that permanent why do we all want to earn millions or billions .
     
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    you wana earn more, coz it would help your family live a happy life, your loved ones ,
     
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  10. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    Nobody can answer what "life" is. Life is whatever you make of it. Do what makes you happy, live like you're taking your last breath on earth and be thankful for what you've been given. I've noticed that us humans always want more than we have, then once we get what we want we just keep wanting more and more. We can never be satisfied with what we have. I've been guilty of that in the past, but now I realize I have a lot more than other people do and I'm appreciative of what I do have and what I've worked for.

    You're not going to have a perfect life, but you can have a life that's perfect for YOU. It's not always easy, but it's what we make of life's events that shape us into the people we are today.
     
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  11. infonote

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    Basically when i am depressed, i think of people in Africa who are in a much worse situation then me.

    I pray to God to put me in the right direction and seek my friends.
     
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    I don't call GOD becouse i don't belive in it this is just an esquese for people who don't succed (a hope that someoane will do something)

    We onlly we can do something for ourselves that's my opinion i could say i'm happy (becouse financial i'm doing great but money is not =happynes / i search something deeper then gaving money a nice car and a nice house this are only easy things to achive .... but the hardes is True love and real friends )
     
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  13. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    I don't really believe in God either, w3bmaster. But I don't think we have a right to judge others based on what they believe in. If calling upon God (or whatever they believe in) helps them overcome obstacles in their life, I say more power to them.

    Ultimately, do whatever makes you happy. Just because something works for one person doesn't mean it will work for you.
     
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    infonote Well-Known Member

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    If you are an atheist you are free to not believe.

    However science cannot explain everything.

    E.g. Padre Pio.

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pio_of_Pietrelcina

    I am not telling you to believe, just to remind you that science cannot explain everything.
     
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  15. topaffiliateprogram

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    thats the most difficult thing of this world , i know poor peoples who blame life and want to enjoy cars and hotels , rich peoples want to get rid from dieseases or family problems or anything , in breif 99.99% of peoples just cant do whatever they want to do due to society restrictions/financial problems or any other reason .,...
    and if you fail to do what you want to do , whats the point to live on this earth ?
     
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    topaffiliateprogram Peon

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    yep true , atleast i cant believe i am made from water,chemicals and that stuff .... i mean we r special , we are not just chemicals ( according to science we r just made from chemicals) .... i mean no chemical can bring imotions , So if science is true there should be no love/pain/fear or imotions.....

    however there is little problem about god , how a single earth have multiple gods (hindu/muslims/christs ... countless religions exists) ... may be god need to come on this earth to clear doubts and teach meaning of life

    i understand lord of destruction(death) starts its working after birth ,,, but still ? do we live just to die ?
     
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    Actually, endocannabinoids and endorphins are both two chemicals (out of a million) that can control emotions, and we are not just chemicals, though our emotions are controlled by chemical balances... Go take an anti-depressant or mind altering drug that releases endorphins, and tell me that chemicals do not control your emotions.


    Like someone else said, time heals even the deepest wounds. Though, if I were to die a slow painful death, I would medically take my self near the end.
     
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  18. DeniseJ

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    Look, life isn't perfect. But we can choose to be depressed about it, OR choose to appreciate what we do have. I'm sorry, but I choose the second option. I'm not going to choose to be miserable the rest of my life. I'm going to get my ass out there and work towards what I want. If I don't get it, hey, at least I tried -- I can always be happy about SOMETHING in my life, even when it seems the world is falling apart.
     
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  19. infonote

    infonote Well-Known Member

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    I believe we are made of 3 different parts.

    Body, Mind and Soul.

    Physical exercise = well being of the body
    Knowledge = well being of the mind
    Religion/philosophy = well being of the soul.

    When we die our body and mind? die and the soul goes to another dimension heaven/hell/purgatory etc

    As regards why there are different Gods, consider it as polymorphism in programming.

    Every person sees God in his/her own way.

    "In general, polymorphism describes multiple possible states for a single property (it is said to be polymorphic, or polymorphous)."

    from Wikipedia.

    And since i know the next question will be why is there evil in this world if there is a God.

    The answer is because God is not a dictator, he gives us a choice and we follow our path.

    Just like parents guide you but cannot force you.

    In SEO terms, Google can guide us TOS equivalent to commandments, but they cannot force us to obey TOS.

    However don't expect to be indexed if you violate TOS just like don;t expect to go to Heaven if you don't follow commandments/lead a good life.

    Just my 2 cents.
     
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  20. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    I almost want to laugh at your comparison of God to Google's TOS. Anyway, how did this discussion end up being about religion? That belongs in the politics/religion board.
     
    DeniseJ, Nov 16, 2006 IP