Love or Friendship

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    Hi DP....

    One who is closed to me nearly 3 yrs.
    Yes! She is my friend.
    But I think I love her...

    Can you tell me, What is different between love and friendship?


    Waiting for good post,

    Macline
     
    greatmacline, Apr 13, 2008 IP
  2. EnPassant

    EnPassant Active Member

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    Oh LOL..mate come on.. No one can tell you. Can't you know your own feelings?

    You SAID "you think" you love her. How you think? ~ You love her or not.. And you have to tell whether its love, or friendship.. or just got used to talking to her cuz I notice you say its been 3 yrs ..

    Hope you get my point.. Good luck
     
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  3. greatmacline

    greatmacline Peon

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    Hi Mate..

    Thanks for your quick reply.
    She simply saying "She can't live without me"
    I using all topic other than Love to her...

    I wanna say " I love you dear " but I am having a fear..
    If she refuse me? Because I to can't able to live without her...
     
    greatmacline, Apr 13, 2008 IP
  4. EnPassant

    EnPassant Active Member

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    You contradict yourself.

    She says "She can't live without you".
    You contradict by saing "If she refuse you?"..

    Does not make sense.
     
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  5. kodut

    kodut Well-Known Member

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    #5
    if you love her you would be thinking about her while sleeping
     
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    touchAshley Active Member

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    #6
    if you think you love her, then you don't
     
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  7. greatmacline

    greatmacline Peon

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    Yes KODUT,

    While sleeping I recall the time..
    When am with her.
     
    greatmacline, Apr 13, 2008 IP
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    EvcRo Notable Member

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    Tell me, she is just a friend? Are you involved? Be more specific ...
    Yes, when you feel you can't live without her...this is love:)
    It seems that both of you are in love;)
     
    EvcRo, Apr 14, 2008 IP
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    tekz999 Guest

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    Ask yourself, if you see her with a new boyfriend, will you be depressed and jealous? Then you will find the answer.
     
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    w3bmaster Notable Member

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    Evrytime is this way that's why i don't have girls as friends
     
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    sturat.mitchel Banned

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    #11
    Start with friendship and turn it into love if possible
     
    sturat.mitchel, Apr 14, 2008 IP
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    sw3t_simplicity88 Peon

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    #12
    You either love her or you don't. If you still "think" that you love her then is not love yet. It may be scary to tell her how you feel but that's the only way you'll know how she feels about you. I think is better to speak up now then regretting it later. But the choice is yours.
     
    sw3t_simplicity88, Apr 14, 2008 IP
  13. oldmentor

    oldmentor Banned

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    If you love her then just go and tell her about your feelings, dont waste time. Otherwise you might lose her for not telling that u love her. Good luck to you.
     
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    carol.prime Active Member

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    If you're ready to take the consequences after you tell your feelings for her then go for it, and if you don't, just keep it to your self man. Probably, it might be change for good if she feels the same way but if she just love you as a friend then accept the fact.
     
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    0lgi Notable Member

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    Seems a de javu for me ! Somewhere I have seen this :)
     
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    If you think then you don't. If you believe then you love her.
     
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    I think relationships where you have known the person for a while tend to work out the best and last the longest. Fast hookups tend to not last long at least in my experience.
     
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