Love Marriage | Arranged Marriage ?

According to you what is better :

1) Love Marriage
2) Arranged Marriage by parents


I support arrange marriage because the parents have more life experience than us and they will never mis-guide us.


What is you answer ???

 

love is good, coz u already know the person well and are used to.

 

i would prefer Arranged Marriage by parents, if something goes wrong you can always blame your parents!

but then, all deponds on how happy you are, if you are more happy with a love marrige, you should go for it. though, with arranged marriages there are less number of divorces!

 

Be serious i make my own live i consider aranged mariages a thing of the pass

Love is the way and you make your decissions yourself

If you don't fail or do it yourself you will never learn ...

 

Love marriage which is to be convert to arrange marriage

 

It depends on the culture you live in and what is expected. For example, in India, people accept arranged marriages and don't see it as a problem.

 

Hey,it's 21st century.Love Marriage,of course.

 

Yes I agree, love marriage.

 

Some people just stay in the 17th century damm ....

 

Well i think it does not matter that love marriage is good or arrange, It's totally depend on the understanding. If you understand your partner very well, then your life will go in the right direction.

-Sandhya-

 

The end of Both ways is marriage...Right!!
But when you ask your parents for help in order to find the perfect wife, that means ( for me ) that you can not find your suitable soul-mate..!!
So the best way is to find your true love and your future wife by yourself...
Because You are the one who will live with her!! You are the one who will share the moments of your life, and share everything with her Not your Parents!!
Maybe your parents have a great experience in this life more than you.. But that doesn't mean that they are always right!!! Especially in this marrying thing... So Try to find your lover by your own self, and Marry her, and Trust me you're gonna be happy for all your life time..

 

i dont think you will love some one without understanding
understanding is part of love, so it has to be love marrige.

 

I totally agree with you, If there is a point about choice then I also prefer Love marriage.

-Sandhya-

 

you have to make your own choice before some one forces it, ultimately its matter to spend your whole life

 

I can't believe so many people voted for arranged marriage. When will you start making your own choices in life (good or bad)?

 

mostly it has to do with cultural differences
in the western world we think that above all else we need "romantic love" or "sexual compatibility" in the very least for a successful marriage
however, as something to think about - the divorce rate may be directly related to that train of thought

in countries like india where arranged marriages are very common
an emphasis is usually based on matching individuals with overall compatibility in mind
with the thought that over time a deep friendship leading to perhaps romantic love and sexual compatibility is possible

there are advantages and disadvantages to both but there is no clear-cut "better choice" without taking your culture into consideration

indian culture has a deep extended-family based culture
in the west, not so much

these factors all (should) play into the decision-making process


vanessa.

 

is that because the girls get murdered in honor killing if they speak out and refuse.

 

love isn't something you can arrange, and is something everyone should experience within thier lives, without anyone, especially parents getting involved .....

 

I don't agree with arranged marriage. It takes away ones freedom to choose whom to be with for the rest of his life.

--Joe

 

none of them ... i vote for an arrangeted marriage by yourself...
you must to also use your mind when you choose, not only your spirit and say "I love her, i love here, she is very bitchy but i love her" and after 2 months... wow divorce