Love at first sight?

Of course, dcristo. I realize that

Love is not all in the eyes... that's called lust, honey.

 

Some Indian chicks do have nice eyes, I see what you mean.

 

sorry madam you are wrong..completely.

i can understand .. that the overseas factor!

the day you come here you will find exactly what does eyes means..

 

Haha, maybe I'm wrong. Maybe you're wrong. We'll probably never know or agree

 

I do believe that love is possible. Its not about physical attraction its more about chemistry and euphoric feeling that makes you seek attention of the other person.

Its rare but its not unheard of. You do have to experience it to believe it.
Till than you will only deny it.

You may say that you need to know a person to love him. This means that you love a person through your mind and not your heart?

 

No, that's not what I am trying to imply. In order for your heart to love someone, your mind needs to know who they are. You can't love someone if you know nothing about them.

I'm not trying to deny the existence of love at all. Love at first sight however... doesn't exist.

 

what i feel is thats just the state of mide...

if you can't think beyod sex you can never love

 

Your statement is contradictory. You want to love a person by heart but do want to apply your mind before you do so. Thats really interesting.

 

No. You need to get to know them first.

Imagine you fell in love with a Pornstar, just imagine she hasn't told you, you get a good relationship going, and then you see her..well, yeah.

 

Well i am a die hard optimist.

So instead i will imagine i fell in love with a princess and she hasnt told me and then i find it out.


But coming back to your question, even if the person has concealed his or her past your partner can still be in love with you.

 

Jameskon, who said anything about sex?

 

I agree, but you need to talk to them first, you can't tell shes a pornstar from looking at her, unless, yeah.

 

thats what you realte to lust... according to you.

don't mind.. i was just putting up my words

 

Well you believe that a pornstar cannot receive genuine affection?
Do you intend to say she will remain an object of lust for ever.

Let me change the circumstances. You love a girl and she has slept with someone before. Will you equate her with the pornstar or will you treat her differently?

Please note that we were discussing about love and not lust!

Love has a wider and more indepth feeling attached to it?

 

I think lust at first site is very common, but no short-sighted love is true

 

No, that is a different situation. What i'm saying is if the Pornstar continues to carry on doing Porn Shows, behind your back. If I loved a Girl and she has slept with someone, but if her and I were going out, then so long as she wasn't doing it behind my back, or told me, and admitted it, that'd be fine =)

I do agree with you, depending on the scenario =)

 

Like i said when you are in love you dont tend to be too rational.

 

I do believe in love at first sight-it happen to me once, actually heard bells go off.(not joking) Never heard the bells again,thou.

 

IMO, i don't believe in it. because for me there's no such thing as an instant love.. everything is a process.. you can't love someone at First sight, you can only get attracted to him/her.

Love isn't easy to be felt... it is a long process that's just my opinion.

 

I strongly DISSAGREE You can fall in love with someone you dont know at all (I have and now i know her very well and she knows me too) Love at first glance does work. I dont care if you agree with me or not but if looking for a real example, here i am


I am 100% serious