long-very long indeed- distance relationship!

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by v_sylvia, Jun 8, 2006.

  1. #1
    do u think long distance relationship will work?

    im wondering about the commitment, faithfulness between me n my bf ..

    n tell me what do u really think about having a bf from the net ..
    never meet him, just chat online ..
    do u think he is truly sincere?

    i dont doubt my feeling but ... his?

    help meeeeee ? please? :confused:
     
    v_sylvia, Jun 8, 2006 IP
  2. ServerUnion

    ServerUnion Peon

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    You are making them the person you want, not what they are. For all you know he is a 60 year old transvestive truck driver. For the love of god, turn your computer off and get out into the real world.
     
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  3. MatthewN

    MatthewN Well-Known Member

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    Welcome to DP :) Nice 1st post :D

    I personally wouldnt date someone I never met. I just dont like that type of thing. Thats just my personal opinion though.
     
    MatthewN, Jun 9, 2006 IP
  4. cloudybutnice

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    I think you'll need it!
     
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  5. ahkip

    ahkip Prominent Member

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    be real son...why you want cyber love when you can have to real one
     
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  6. Maksa

    Maksa Well-Known Member

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    #6

    It's all about luck....

    I loved a gal on net whome i never seen and met her after 2 years....
    In that 2 years with only had chat n phone talks no photo or cam.

    But it's difficult to get good people and good luck...

    All the best for ur life.... :)
     
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  7. v_sylvia

    v_sylvia Peon

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    so u think i just need luck?

    dont u think i'll need more than luck? :(

    missing him a lot!
     
    v_sylvia, Jun 10, 2006 IP
  8. Maksa

    Maksa Well-Known Member

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    I always Belive in luck dear.... our hardwork will not work.

    All the best... dont worry u'll be having good luck soon :)

    have faith in GOD
     
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  9. Rage

    Rage Well-Known Member

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    #9

    Hey.... dont worry....

    Just try to give some time to you relationship.... these kind of relationship need a little time before taking a big step...

    i dont say that this relation dont works... this relation can work....

    all you need is a time,.... in some time you will know that is your BF is sincere or not....

    I wish you best...
     
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  10. iowadawg

    iowadawg Prominent Member

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    9 years ago, on the net, met the wonderful woman I am married to now.

    And we know quite a few others who met on the net and are now happily married or in a long-term relationship.

    And yes, you can not make any love statements, etc until you have actually met the person and spent time with that person.
     
    iowadawg, Jun 10, 2006 IP
  11. Daniel

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    I agree its always best to meet the person in person and not just talk over the net. You never know who you could be dealing with when youve never met them in person and spent time with them.

    People are capable of lying and making you believe they are what you want them to be but how do you really know if you havent spent quality time with them and truly had a chance to get to know them well?

    Just my 2 cents :)
     
    Daniel, Jun 10, 2006 IP
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    s2kinteg916 Well-Known Member

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    Didnt work out for me . :D
     
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    #13
    Boyfriends from the net = creepy
    Long distance relationships = difficult
     
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  14. Ponynugget

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    As said above, it's always best to meet them in person before going into a relationship.

    I used to play a game called RuneScape and was good friends with girlthatlivesinamerica (let's call her that as I don't want to give away her nickname :p) girlthatlivesinamerica met boythatlivesinengland through the game and became close friends. They "married" in-game and decided to meet eachother in real life. Boythatlivesinengland flew over to America, and he proposed to her a few days later. They now live together in England and have never been happier.
     
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    Good luck, my friend thinks he's a long distance relationship right now, but I'll take his girl (she loves me) when I visit my home place.
     
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  16. v_sylvia

    v_sylvia Peon

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    what if i dont have time? i just have a very little time .. :(

    but i also think about what if the guy doesnt bother to active in this relationship .. i gave him my number but he never calls, he doesnt even bother to try to contact me ..

    but he kept saying smtg like he wants me ..

    true .. not true .. true .. not true .. true .. not true ...

    tell me guys .. i need more opinion to open my eyes!
     
    v_sylvia, Jun 11, 2006 IP
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    If he's not trying to contact you he's not interested. If you always have to initiate conversation he's not really interested.

    If he's not willing to put any effort into the relationship then he's not worth bothering with.

    What do you find so good about him that you're worrying about a relationship with him?

    I had an OkCupid account sit idle for over a year. One day a girl messages me. Two weeks later we started dating. In less than a year we were married.

    You can't make anyone be right for you. The right one will come along when you least expect it and you'll just know. If you don't know, then he's not the one so why waste your time? At best he's just a temporary fling.
     
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    online relationship is very risky....
    besides, everyone can be anyone on the internet....
    you cannot tell if the person is fraud or real.

    goodluck to you, i hope that you find the person who will love you no matter what...

    not everyone could have a happy ending in this kind of relationship.
     
    jc_yusuke, Jun 11, 2006 IP
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    mavahntooth Well-Known Member

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    sometimes online relationship works. love really moves in mysterious ways. if your happy, why dont you try let things happen.
     
    mavahntooth, Jun 12, 2006 IP
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    keisuke takahashi Banned

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