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life is not fair?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by lfm1012, Jul 7, 2011.

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    Some people say that life is not fair, what do you think?
     
    lfm1012, Jul 7, 2011 IP
  2. manis

    manis Well-Known Member

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    As per me Life is just life but We folks are responsible to make it or name it as Fair and Unfair.
     
    manis, Jul 7, 2011 IP
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    i think they are struggled in many problems... they did not get his loved one...so they addicted in drugs or make suicide.
     
    ayushi infotech, Jul 7, 2011 IP
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    Rebecca Prominent Member

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    I agree with "some people". Life is definitely not fair. Tonight I was reading about a shooting. These people were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. Now they've been killed. There are children starving in parts of the world, that just had the misfortune of being born into poverty. I read in the news about a little boy that had been kept in a cage, eventually his parents beat him to death. There are individuals that never live to their full potential because they must struggle, simply to survive. I think life has beauty, joy, but also sadness.
     
    Rebecca, Jul 8, 2011 IP
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    In some ways I think life is unfair but most of the times it offers us amazing opportunities.
     
    serena85, Jul 8, 2011 IP
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    Well, it depends on how you handle it... life always has ups and downs and that quit normal... so try go with it
     
    alodia, Jul 8, 2011 IP
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    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    I work as an advertising executive but if you check out my profile,you will see that I have training as an addiction counselor.I volunteer on the weekends and spent time with those who struggle with alcohol/drug addictions.What I attempt to do is to get them to be honest with themselves.Then get them to stop feeling sorry for themselves.............life is good if you're strong.If you are weak life is hard.The honesty part is to get them to admit they are weak.Then I work on getting them to be strong.This is the formula.Life is not fair....deal with it.
     
    Spoiltdiva, Jul 8, 2011 IP
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    That's what makes life a life. Life is like yin-yang. So there's fortune and there's misfortune. There's life, there's also death. There's peace and there's war.
     
    g36, Jul 8, 2011 IP
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    Agreed. Life is fortune and misfortune, birth and death, peace and war, joy and sorrow; though, to clarify, it's not yin-yang events of existence, in and of itself, that I find so unfair.
     
    Rebecca, Jul 8, 2011 IP
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    Life isn't fair is a normal and common saying that has eaten deep into our hearts. Life isn't meant to fit everybody but you can make the most of it while you have the chance to to avoid regrets.
     
    chinasa, Jul 9, 2011 IP
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    I have always said "If its to be its up to me" On another note, We attract everything in our life one way or another, in our thinking.
     
    noelireland, Jul 9, 2011 IP
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    That's a lot of fluffy feel good stuff, but no. What was so wrong in this boys "thinking", to have brought on such a tortured existence?

    Obviously, the big problem in his life wasn't that he needed better thoughts. What he needed was someone to lock up his parents, and give him a happy home.
     
    Rebecca, Jul 9, 2011 IP
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    I feel the same way too. The main reason behind that feeling could be the struggles I am experienced before until now.
     
    claude, Jul 9, 2011 IP
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    Honestly, life has always been very good to me, but when I look around I very often realize that life's a b**ch
     
    KateFP, Jul 9, 2011 IP
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    i think that this man is unsuccessful so that's why he/she telling like that......
     
    Achiever, Jul 10, 2011 IP
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    life is everything man,,,,,,,,,,,,,
     
    xXxpert, Jul 10, 2011 IP
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    Like is so fair. people who say it's not fair,they just want to blame something else for their mistakes.
     
    Wad!e, Jul 10, 2011 IP
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    Tell that to children starving in parts of the world simply because they were born in poverty.

    I have probably been the most adamant in this thread to argue life is not fair. However, it's not really based on what's going on in my personal life. It's from observation, and actually being aware. An individual that wants to claim "life is so fair", and further claiming that "anyone who says otherwise is just blaming others for mistakes"; is someone that probably does not have the remotest idea of what's going on in the world, and never reads the news.
     
    Rebecca, Jul 10, 2011 IP
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    Life is fair when you live like a true person and be honest for your relation and for other.
     
    pawan_668, Jul 10, 2011 IP
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    Actually Life is fair
    but we don't fair with
    life.
     
    love**, Jul 10, 2011 IP