Is this cheating?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Cylon, Oct 26, 2007.

  1. #1
    Say you have a partner, but you're having problems, and you are thinking of breaking up. Then you meet another person and you really hit it off. You're spending all day with this person and you decide you definitely are over the partner. You then have sex with the new person, and a day later tell the partner you are done with them. Would you say you cheated on that partner?
     
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  2. Nora

    Nora Well-Known Member

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    #2
    Yes because you cheated while they thought you were still in a relationship with them.. but telling them and moving on within 5 minutes would be equally rude.. :D
     
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  3. dtm

    dtm Banned

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    #3
    in my opinion it is.

    because you didnt tell your partner you brake up with him or her.

    he or she was or will be thinking you are still a couple.

    but thats just my 2 cents.
     
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  4. gotlinks

    gotlinks Notable Member

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    #4
    I believe its cheating yes, but I also dont believe in Sex outside of marrige.

    My 2 cents :D
     
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  5. Crazy_Rob

    Crazy_Rob I seen't it!

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    #5
    Nah. Not cheating....so just move on.
     
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  6. uglyboy

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    #6
    Is this fessing up.. I think its cheating, you were still in a relationship but scouting new talent at the same time. Affairs of the heart are complicated at the best of times.. I'm sure you can live with the guilt though.

    Its interesting you used Nintendo's head to confess..
     
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  7. Meth_

    Meth_ Well-Known Member

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    #7
    people oti get laid?
     
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  8. Abhik

    Abhik ..:: The ONE ::..

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    #8
    oh yes.. Its Cheating..
    I am a bit old fashioned in this case.. :p
     
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  9. WebWriter

    WebWriter Active Member

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    #9
    Yes it was cheating before the sex...emotional cheating is still cheating.
     
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  10. ibpro2

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    #10
    you're still cheating. plus it doesnt make you look good if the new girl finds out you were dating someone else at the time you's had sex.
     
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    #11
    I dont think it's cheating.:D
    :D
     
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  12. ibpro2

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    #12
    if your still in a relationship (weather it be bad or good) and you have sex with someone else it is cheating
     
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  13. Cylon

    Cylon Peon

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    #13
    what if I think I'm in a relationship with Pamela Anderson, doesn't that make her a cheater? Both people have to think they are in a relationship for it to be real, doesn't it?

    what if the other girl new about the relationship, and I told the new girl, I am done with her. I am cutting it off as soon as I talk to her again.

    But what does it mean to be in a relationship? I thought we were done, doesn't that make it over?

    I mean...this theoretical person. If this were a real story there would be other details that I am leaving out. But...its not. I swear. really. yup.
     
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  14. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    #14
    If you have to ASK if it's cheating... you obviously feel in some way that it is.

    Do I think it's cheating? Yup. And I think it's pretty heartless too, but that's my two cents.
     
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  15. PHPGator

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    #15
    Yep, thats still cheating. You are not broken up until both people are aware of it.
     
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    #16
    Yes.... Its A Kind Of Cheating :D You Should Tell Your Patner Every Thing

    Thanks
     
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  17. Cylon

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    #17
    Well its a good thing this is a fictional story, because I wouldn't want my cookie maker thinking bad of me.

    I asked to compare my views on the situation with others, not because I wanted people to agree with me or disagree with me.
     
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  18. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    Haha... I'm YOUR cookie maker now? When did this happen and how did I miss the memo?
     
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  19. AAZZ

    AAZZ Active Member

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    #19
    Its cheating, you have to atleast tell your partner first.
     
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  20. Cylon

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    #20
    what if I wrote a letter saying we are over, and mailed it, but she didn't get it until the following day?

    did I say that? what I meant was whoever my cookie maker is, I wouldn't want them upset with me.

    But if all I have to do is send you a memo and you become my cookie maker, expect a pm.
     
    Cylon, Oct 26, 2007 IP