is this a psychological problem.?

Hi

Do you think that If someone has sexual feelings about children is that a psychological problem?
I am warring about this becaouse I have this kind of feeling.. please tell me what I have to do?

thanks you. ( this is not a joke. this is serious )

 

Yes it must be checked and solved in beginning as it is not good human thought. Pls consult with appropriate counsellor who can help you...

 

maybe not good ......

 

Well listen, it depends how old are you, and how old the children are. If you're attracted to 7 year olds or something like that then you need medical treatment.
I'm not judging you or anything, because I have similar problem.
For example if you're attracted to a person that is five years younger than you, that's OK in my book (I'm still having some second thoughts on this one), but that doesn't mean that you should be sexually active with that person, because it's a serious offense if the person hasn't turned 18 yet.
So if you're 20 years old and you feel attracted to a 15 year old, that's OK, but having intercourse or anything else with that person is considered an criminal offense and it's wrong to do.
Many people don't really give a damn about it, maybe I'm to conservative on that issue, I don't know.
I hope I helped you a bit, and if you feel that you can't deal with it ask for professional help.

 

Thank you very much for your answer,

I think my problem is very dangerous, Because I am 25 years old and I have feelings about 5 years old girls. I afraid to reach them because I feel like I am going to make a mistake.. I hope to meet a doctor. I needed to know is this a normal thing, But I know now It is not normal. I am sick

 

It is definitely a serious concern; take time to address it immediately. Get some psych counseling. And before that, avoid any/all circumstances that bring you to the vicinity of young girls!

 

He is right...This is a serious issue, you could very well end up ruining some child's life.
Agreed, its not your intention too, but unfortunately you are suffering from a mental sickness...although its not normal but its not very rare too.
Please consult a doctor ASAP cuz any wrong step might not only ruin the child's life but you will end up with a lot of guilt which would be difficult to bear.
Also, avoid situations where you get alone with any 5 year olds or things that make you think so, or even places where you find a lot of kids.
Good luck with it

ps: On a lighter note - you made me think if I had the same feeling too, and I fell into a bit of confusion, but turns out I just find them cute

 

Stay away from little kids you sicko.

And don't listen to Mentalhead, there is a big difference between liking a girl who is 5 years younger then you and having sexual feelings for little girls!

 

Well like those guys said, if you're attracted to 5 year olds then you should seek professional help. Talk to local psychologist for professional help. I hope that you'll find solution to your problem soon.

Btw Mentalhead said:

 

I think you need to make sexual relation with any younger lady and then maybe your problem will be solved.

 

This happened only because you have never done sex yet.

 

I think all your life you haven't had any sex, you might have been without girlfriends.

If you had sex earlier you will know how to treat a 5 year old girl. You will rather have love than sex feelings for kids.

Be a man, marry someone, have sex, which will release you from your sexual feelings for small girls.

Don't just sit in one room, make friends, be busy with some work.

 

this is crazy....

 

Zen masters wouldnt have had sex at least once in their lives, they still have amazing control over their urges and feeling. It's not about one having sex earlier or not! To get sexual feelings aroused on seeing small kids/girls is a very SERIOUS MENTAL DISORDER which needs immediate attention

 

I could see something like 16 or 17 but I'm 23 and still get them types of chicks running after me, but anything younger is bad bad and needs to be brought to a doctors attention.

 

I feel sorry for you, you're still pretty young though. Most girls that age talk so much shit.

 

Yeah I usually don't even talk to them they are nothing but trouble.

And it's usually sisters of my girlfriend,I was dating a 22 year old one time and her younger sister liked me,it was kindda strange.

 

@dcristo
Agreed at the part about girls.

Btw it's not all about sex, but I'm guessing that there's some truth in it.

 

all of you are very shameless people go to hell.........................

 

???????.. I just ask for help. Because I can't talk about this with my parents or friends. I think you understand what I am saying.

any way, You are correct with I haven't had any sex yet. Do you think this is the correct answer?