only way to have 100% control is to be the creator , just think about it, if you created something would you give complete control to someone else?
We have a white label affiliate program, where we set up all our scripts on your site and adapt them to match the specific design, style and theme of your site and all the transactions, sales etc go through your sites only. The visitors only go through various sections of your site and never leave it even after making payments. The aff program is basically 100% controlled by you and hosted on your website, just connects to our databases. However it's currently in a closed beta version, only available to high traffic sites with over 3,000 visits per day, we accommodate all niches, except adult.