Is there a Tool to check how many individual websites link to you, other than Backlinks and link popularity, i'm looking for a tool that tells your how many actual websites link to you not webpages? Thanks
Both Yahoo Site Explorer and Google Webmaster Tools give you good insight into the links coming in and out of your website.
Keep in mind that you may download details of backlinks shown by your ggle webmaster tool account (button at the bottom of the list). As for the amount of linking sites, some backlink checker tools may give you some information . For instance, Seomoz gives you the amount of domains linking to you site (as for my site, the figure is much under the actual one, the tool is not fully reliable, but it is still an indication) http://www.seomoz.org/linkscape
google and yahoo report different numbers of backlinks - this is because google only show higher pr sites in the backlink check.