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Is that too late for a girl to get married at age of 32?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by victor78, Nov 16, 2007.

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    Just wonder is it too late for a girl to get married at age of more than 30? My girl friend no is at the age of 26 and always wanted to get married. But for me, my career still developing and have no excess money for married and plan to married her around 5 years later. She always said this is too late for her. Any suggestion for me? Thanks.
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    victor78, Nov 16, 2007 IP
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  2. pipes

    pipes Prominent Member

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    I personally think that someone should wait until they can afford to get married, ive never understood couples struggling with cash for other things but forking out 10k for a wedding.

    Some of my older cousins have been well into their 30's before they got married, im 31 myself and not married.

    Dont marry if your not ready, i may never get married, its not essential to me.
     
    pipes, Nov 16, 2007 IP
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    tony84 Well-Known Member

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    Ive told my gf im never getting married shes not happy but she accepts it. 32 isnt 2 old but perhapse you could make a deal and do it at 30 instead?
     
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    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    #4
    Lots of people wait until their 30s to get married - it's no big deal.
    Unless of course her biological clock is ticking.
     
    CountryBoy, Nov 16, 2007 IP
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    wowhaxor Banned

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    #5
    why do you need money to get married? What you want some $20,000 wedding or something? Thats not what being married is about.
     
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    pipes Prominent Member

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    I agree a marriage shouldn't be about the money and impressing people but it usually ends up that way, the way i see it is the actual day looks stressful and full of obligation to guests and doing everything to the clock, hardly enjoyable.
     
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  7. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    I don't think it's ever too late to get married. It has to be right for both people involved - if one partner isn't happy and wants to get married now, then perhaps she needs to find someone more compatible with her goals.

    If she isn't willing to wait until you are financially stable, then maybe she isn't the woman you should spend the rest of your life with. Both partners need to be aware of where the other stands, and if they aren't willing to compromise... well... what's left?
     
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    allout Notable Member

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    It is never too late to marry. I had a neighbor who never got married until she was in her 50s. It she is looking at kids, 32 is still not too old to have kids.
    Maybe she just does not want to wait that long and is basically telling you to move it up or she is moving on.
     
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    pipes Prominent Member

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    Less stress, happier times, money in your pocket.:) Freeeeeeeeeedom :)
     
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    lhaizza Peon

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    Getting married at 32 is not that late, but waiting for 5 years is such a long time.
     
    lhaizza, Nov 16, 2007 IP
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    It takes more money to support 2 people then it does 1.

    My goodness lol.

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    I had a friend who got married before he was earning enough and they changed as people. He makes $1k a month and also got his wife pregnant by accident.

    Waiting is the BEST thing you can do.
     
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    #12
    I think you should try hard and settle down asap before it's too late.
    I hope it's not too late but take my suggestion,please try to get married asap.
    I understand your problem,but you know girls change mind from time to time.
    Hope you both live happy for ever:)
     
    FreelanceFirm, Nov 16, 2007 IP
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    DomainMagnate Illustrious Member

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    Not late at all.
    She'll still have plenty of time to get divorced and remarry a few times.
     
    DomainMagnate, Nov 16, 2007 IP
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    #14
    It's never too late to get married. If you love someone then you would want to get married when you can afford it.
     
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    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    Settle down before it's too late?

    Settling down when you're READY is one thing...

    Simply "settling" should never happen.
     
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    yes it is late..very late..i mean unless u guys have kids before u get married..i think any woman would love to have a child before she turns 30 so that she can "grow up" with the baby..
     
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    At the age of 32, she might not have many eggs left in the basket... if you know what I mean.
     
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    #18
    at 32,50,60,never is too late
     
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    I was 42 when I got married to my current wife - she was 22, that was two years ago
     
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    #20
    its never too late.... to run from it!

    all that matters is when its right for you. I got married at 25.
     
    mmastation, Nov 16, 2007 IP