Well i vote for "making love" but in this days sex is more "popular" and i hate yong people that "do it" i was a virgin until 19 or so and i made "love" to the only women who i ever loved had 2 years more then me and i 'm proud to say : i didn't do it to see how it is or becouse evryone else did it i did it becouse we where atracted and whanted to do it by love ... From that point i been to lot of girls like 10 (in 2 years) and i'm not very proud but ohh hell i don't care anymore all they whant is sex and of course money or both .... just my humble opinion and experience in life of a 22 years old guy
Sex is stimulated by the mind first. You think someone is sexy based on their looks or their personality which is what you perceive mentally to be sexy. If you just want looks you still need to see that person first to be turned on. If you are just attracted to their personality, you need to hear their voice or read something they say to turn you on. Touching a womans breast sends stimulation to your mind which makes you get an erection. Getting a woman wet is either through touching her in a certain way or telling her what she wants to hear or just her being physically attractive to you in what her mind thinks is attractive. But she has to have emotions to want it. Either way sex is very addictive and without the desire to want it emotionally it wouldn't be addictive. Its mental first then physical so actually without the other it wouldn't be addictive.
I think there is nothing special in sex to be obsessed with it. It is a normal thing, a part of a human’s life. Not all people are quick to have sex... Maybe it is more common for hotter places