is living together before marriage a good idea?

please post your opinion about whether it is a good idea to live together before marriage?

 

Yes, living together with your fried is nice before marriage.
And once you marry, ask your friend to leave.

 

I have been living with my partner for about 5 years and we are not married. I think its a good idea, you get to know each other before finding out if you really want to marry her or not!

 

*facepalm* Are you for real ? I mean seriously you wouldn't live together whit the love of your life before marriage ?

He's one for ya . If you're a guy and can't provide a nice apartment for your girl ... forget about marriage . You don't deserve it .

 

I am living in a Asia, there is no such a thing as living together without married.

I wish if I could do that, no need to spend money and time in courts if you need to leave him or her.

 

It's a very good idea. Brings more love in the couple.

 

Living with your partner before marriage is a bad idea because I don't believe in 'shacking up'

 

Yes it is good if they don't have any sexual relationship between them...

 

its depends on their mentality

 

no...its better both are free...so they may test themselves and their loyalty... its really different when both of partners are staying in one roof than they don't see each other too much..^_^

 

Its better if you dont move in together. If you are serious about the relationship then yes it would be best if you moved in together before you got married. You have to get use to the fact of someone constantly in your space

 

According to me its both good and bad depend upon the situation we need to pick

 

I'm appalled by the mentality . How on Earth do you expect to make that woman happy if you won't even do somethings as simple as live whit her for a few months or years ?

And lol at the no sex replies , sex is one of the best things in life have as much as you can .

 

It's a very good idea. The only thing is that you should not tell about this to your wife after you get married.

If you have Somniloquy , It's a big problem.

 

We live together with my gf for a time now and it's ok sofar

 

If you want to, do it, if you don't, don't do it. Each to their own. I've done it, and I'd do it again. I'm from Australia, and that's the sort of freedom I'm used to, I can do it if I want, or if I don't want.

I feel bad for those who come from countries where due to the government/religion it's forbidden. Someone else deciding that facet of life for an individual is just uncool.

 

totally as it gives you an idea of what married life will bring - sneak peak!

 

Well, it depends on what you two want, if you want live together earlier, then you start earlier. But you should know many lovers get apart after they live together. Lol~

 

Yes. A great idea, but don't move into her place - then she'll always see you as the "intruder". Get a new place together. Then it's "our place".