is it wrong to be straight forward at all times

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    is it wrong to be straight forward from heart at all times.
     
    itsjesus, Feb 18, 2010 IP
  2. acidkolic

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    #2
    sometimes you no need to straight foward.but it is base on what condition you need to straight foward..
     
    acidkolic, Feb 19, 2010 IP
  3. useakme

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    #3
    I'm always straight and to the point, although it's got me in trouble sometimes. It depends on the situation really.
     
    useakme, Feb 19, 2010 IP
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    #4
    There are times that it's good but there are also times that it's bad, just like what useakme said, it depends on the situation.
     
    karlbryan, Feb 19, 2010 IP
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    ourfella Well-Known Member

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    No, I think it is very cool to say exactly what you think all the time and I respect anyone who does it
     
    ourfella, Feb 19, 2010 IP
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    Not really, these type of people have few friends for sure.
     
    eagleshot, Feb 19, 2010 IP
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    webbmaster Well-Known Member

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    interesting.. speaking your mind will get you a lot of friends.. however, many people can not handle the truth.. they would rather be lied to make themselves feel better...
     
    webbmaster, Feb 19, 2010 IP
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    RightMan Notable Member

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    #8
    Absolutely not... but it is equally important to appreciate this trait in others as well!
    One would find many people claiming to be straight forward, but when they themselves face similar kind, they chicken out and get annoyed! :(
    That is just not done... one should be ready to taste his own medicine... with an open heart! :eek:

    Regards,

    RightMan
     
    RightMan, Feb 20, 2010 IP
  9. Mentalhead

    Mentalhead Active Member

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    Best thing is to keep balance between two.
     
    Mentalhead, Feb 20, 2010 IP
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    Yes, some may take offence to your straightforwardness ;)
     
    cool_78, Feb 20, 2010 IP
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    No, I think it is right.
     
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    It is sincere but can be not good for you - some people are cunning and even cruel and they can use your sincerety in their evil goals. I can advice you to be straightforward with your family, relatives and friends but rather careful with people whom you don't know really well.
     
    Warner, Feb 20, 2010 IP
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    #13
    It depends upon the nature of the person.but its better to be straight forward and have an open and a real conversation in any relationship
     
    maha123, Feb 20, 2010 IP
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    i guess its not wrong to be straight forward at all times its juzt its how to say it and at the right time :)
     
    chuwie25, Feb 20, 2010 IP
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    I think there is a fine line there. I believe in being honest and straight forward but I also take people's feelings into consideration. If it is going to really hurt someone unnessecarily than I think it is best not to be all the time
     
    mreb1010, Feb 21, 2010 IP
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    #16
    sometimes, the truth hurt, so...
     
    China Morden Lifestyle, Feb 21, 2010 IP
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    Yes... Life is such... Too much of anything will not work .... We are always in search of an optimal solution.A delicate balance is what we are looking for.
     
    mdvasanth86, Feb 21, 2010 IP