Is it shameful to live as a Gay/Lesbian?

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  1. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    #221
    Haha, I thought it'd pretty much bit the dust too, Ideas_man. Not so, however.

    Webgenius, that's just ridiculous. If you're going to state an opinion, at least back it up with something tangible.
     
    DeniseJ, Jul 29, 2006 IP
  2. Superorb

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    #222
    That's the nature of the beast. Some things will never change.
     
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  3. DeniseJ

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    #223
    I suppose you are correct, but it still ticks me off. I try not be a man-hating she-beast, but seriously? Comments like those are just... stupid.
     
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  4. Keith Taylor

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    #224
    For me, this is a separate issue from whether people think homosexuals should be afforded all the rights we heteros enjoy. It's simply a statement of sexual preference. Personally, watching two men go at it does nothing for me. I wouldn't go as far as to say 'Gay make me sick' as w3bmaster so succinctly put it, but I wouldn't stick around and get a tub of popcorn. It's just not my cup of tea.

    Two attractive women, though, is a different story. I'm attracted to women. They look nice. They smell nice (or, at least, better than the average man). In short, a day in which I see two attractive women make love is, on the whole, a much better day than the one in which I see two attractive men do the same.

    All that means is that I like women. I don't think it makes me a bad person that I don't mind watching women roll in the hay but I'd avert my eyes from men. It just makes me a heterosexual man.

    I'm not saying, of course, that that's the idea w3bmaster and digigraph were trying to convey. I'd have no problem believing that they'd burn all the gay men at the stake and throw a big party for the lesbians. People are weird like that.
     
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  5. DeniseJ

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    #225
    I don't think it makes you a bad person. I'm not a man, so perhaps that's why I fail to understand the fascination with lesbians. However, to say that gay men are disgusting and gay women are "hot," as previous posts have indicated from various people, is ludicrous.

    If they had put their lesbian-loving ways into terms as mature and thought out as you, that would have been a different story. But as you said, people are weird like that.
     
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  6. Keith Taylor

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    #226
    Unfortunately, behind the big words will always be the thought: 'gay men= ewwwww; lesbians=sexy'. It's just the way we work, it seems.
     
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  7. DeniseJ

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    #227
    I guess I shouldn't complain about something I can't change. But let me tell you, as other people have mentioned not all lesbians would fit your idea of sexy, I can guarantee you that.
     
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  8. Keith Taylor

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    #228
    Amen to that. There's a biker bar I go to occasionally, and it's full of heavily tattooed women who could beat me in an arm wrestle with their pinkie. They're basically men without the dangly equipment. Not the stuff of fantasy :)
     
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    #229
    this thread makes me ashamed of myself.
     
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    #230
    I wouldn't say that what they're thinking is "stupid." Closed-minded maybe, but I suppose everyone's entitled to their own opinion, eh? You can just choose to agree or not to agree, and I will leave it at that.
     
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    #231
    You are a small minded little prick, shut up.

    I don't get the whole Lesbian obsession you men have. If you saw some of the lesbians round here you would personally cut off your dick and put it in a jar on your mantlepiece never to be used again.

    Big fat hairy beasts dressed in manly leather biker clothes. Yeh real sexy dude. :confused:
     
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  12. DeniseJ

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    #232
    I couldn't have said it better myself, Mella. But the porn videos some of the men in this thread watch don't show lesbians that look like that.

    Lesbians aren't always hot, guys. Get a clue.
     
    DeniseJ, Jul 30, 2006 IP
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    #233
    This is like beating a dead horse though. This thread would live on forever and never die.
     
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    #234
    Yeah you're right. Even though i'm not a gay/lesbian, I read this thread. Just for knowledge.
     
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    #235
    Just bringing back loriens post, will put any of you all out of the mood in continuing this topic :D
     
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    #236
    Heh, I think you've made an excellent point GRIM.
     
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  17. Keith Taylor

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    #237
    Hey, I dated the one on the left. She ain't gay.
     
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    #238
    Oh gosh Keith... the images.... *shudder* Thank you for being the creator of my nightmares tonight.
     
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    #239
    So that's what happened to your face! :D

    ewww and j/k :p
     
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  20. Keith Taylor

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    #240
    Hey, you all wish you could bag a fatty. Don't pretend you aren't turned on :)
     
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