Is it ok to loose your virginity before Marriage?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by musman1986, Dec 29, 2007.

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Is it ok to loose your virginity before Marriage?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  3. I Don't know!!!

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  1. philposters

    philposters Well-Known Member

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    #41
    It depends on the person but I think it's okay as long as you're careful and you do it with the one you love. It would be great if you could stay a virgin until marriage though.
     
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  2. Scriptona

    Scriptona Notable Member

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    #42
    For moral reasons I think it's good to lose it with your lifetime partner. it's even more romantic :D

    Ahmed
    The 25 years old virgin :p
     
    Scriptona, Dec 30, 2007 IP
  3. leet

    leet Notable Member

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    #43
    Actually, what matters is if you do it just for fun with anyone you like, or only with someone you love. I think it should only be done if there is love between two.
     
    leet, Dec 30, 2007 IP
  4. hextraordinary

    hextraordinary Well-Known Member

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    #44
    Not only it's ok, it's a must!!! Don't buy before you check, and that goes for both genders...
     
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  5. choice

    choice Prominent Member

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    #45
    IMHO i think sex before marriage is vital because i for one would`nt want to get married and then find out that the sex was rubbish and then have to go through a divorce

    besides its fun
     
    choice, Dec 30, 2007 IP
  6. c-coding

    c-coding Guest

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    #46
    Duh yes only muslims will say no (no offence)
     
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  7. warley

    warley Peon

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    #47
    Yes yes yes :) each to their own but i have no problem with it.
     
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  8. DP Konvict

    DP Konvict Banned

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    #48
    Not really, because of my religion :(!
     
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  9. satyrion

    satyrion Active Member

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    #49
    yeah why not? i dont understand?
     
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  10. Rainbox

    Rainbox Peon

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    #50
    I Believe its ok, in my belief, however i respect others who disagree with me.
     
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  11. mikey1090

    mikey1090 Moderator Staff

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    #51
    im from the UK. its not frowned upon here.
     
    mikey1090, Dec 30, 2007 IP
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    DomainMagnate Illustrious Member

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    #52
    kindof a pointless argument.
     
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  13. Scriptona

    Scriptona Notable Member

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    #53
    I think something needs to be clarified

    I'm wondering if thread starter means having sex with some other girls before marriage so you have some experience

    OR


    Having sex with the girl that you will marry to test her ? :D
     
    Scriptona, Dec 30, 2007 IP
  14. musman1986

    musman1986 Banned

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    #54
    Having sex with the girl you want to marry is a rubbish thing to say. Most of the people don't marry just to have sex or have best sex. Most of the people marry because they need a life partner who could stand by him/her for the rest of the life regardless of the state he/she is/was in.

    Most People don't know that it is not a good thing. If something from inside stops you from doing a particular thing then it means it is not right to do.
     
    musman1986, Dec 31, 2007 IP
  15. Nintendo

    Nintendo ♬ King of da Wackos ♬

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    #55
    *Prepairs to duck!*

    As the poll proves, most members here don't have any morals. Chastity?? What's that! Heck, if some one here made a poll for chicks, 'Would it be OK to murder an unborn baby after testing the stud out before marrige and then the smart guy dumps you?' or for stud muffins, 'Would it be OK to dump the chick cause she ends up giving birth and won't murder the unborn baby?' 2/3rds of the members here would vote yes, just like they did here. It's called abortion.

    Oh, I'm so glad teenagers can't vote here in America!!!!

    er, I think this thread belongs in 'Politics & Religion'!!! *ducks*
     
    Nintendo, Dec 31, 2007 IP
  16. Scriptona

    Scriptona Notable Member

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    #56
    Just like what Nintendo said above. the poll results have different opinion and If you get back to my previous post in this thread you will see that I said I won't like to do it for moral/religious believes.

    Tech Entrance
    The 25 years old virgin ;)
     
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  17. ayne468

    ayne468 Peon

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    #57
    Ultimately this depends on the person involved. If someone wants to have fun and enjoy the pleasures of life (safely) then good for them! But if someone believes that they are "sinning" then they will only feel guilty about their actions. Therefore, I guess one has to ascertain what they really truly believe and value, and make their own choices from there. I do however strongly believe in people thinking for themselves and not just going along with the moral and values of others because they think they should.

    ...That said, I could never even contemplate having stayed a virgin until marriage...lol!:eek: I live my life by following by own beliefs and morals...and on my list sex is there to be enjoyed:)

    Just my 2 cents anyway;)
     
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  18. musman1986

    musman1986 Banned

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    #58
    Most of the people here are saying yes and the context of their msg is that they do it only for the test and experience. I don't understand it.
     
    musman1986, Dec 31, 2007 IP
  19. ayne468

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    #59
    May I ask how old you are?
     
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  20. htmlindex

    htmlindex Prominent Member

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    #60
    Absolutely, in fact, it's recommended ;)
     
    htmlindex, Dec 31, 2007 IP