Is it necessary sex experience before marrige?

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  1. Alfonso_Montenegro

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    #41
    I truly believe that experience is the best teacher...

    So master the art of love-making so that when you meet "THE ONE,"

    both of you can enjoy mind-blowing, steaming, hot love-making sessions.

    It will deepen your intimacy and relationship.


    Just my 2 cents. :)
     
    Alfonso_Montenegro, Feb 13, 2010 IP
  2. Blue Cowboy

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    #42
    First of all, I think that deserves the best answer of the day award.
    Secondly, what does this question have to do with music or movies? But I'll answer anyway.
    Thirdly, here is my answer according to MHO.

    In marriage there are five components that I would rank as the most important areas where a couple should be compatible (and not in any particular order): sex, finances, child-rearing, politics, and religion. So why is sex the only one that anyone seems to see a need to have experience in before marriage?

    Sex is natural (no animal ever had to be taught it, children have most of it figured out long before their parents set them down for "The Talk", and it is the same today as it was 10,000 years ago.) While child-rearing could be somewhat comparable having these aforementioned aspects, the other three most certainly could not.

    Finances are the #1 cause of divorce (not sex), yet no one sees a need to discuss them prior to marriage.

    Your children are your future; teaching them to grow up to be responsible contributing adults is probably the most difficult job in the world, yet no one sees a need to have conversations about this with their future spouses.

    Probably nothing is more divisive in marriages, families, and countries than religion or politics, yet the subject is never broached prior to marriage.

    So why is only one of these 5 subjects deemed to be important enough to be experienced in prior to marriage? IMO it is simply because that one is fun, whereas the others are not.

    Most people get married in their early 20s. IMHO, if you haven't figured sex out by the time you are 20, then you have bigger problems than you think, and it is probably best if you never get married and produce offspring that carry your genes.
     
    Blue Cowboy, Feb 13, 2010 IP
  3. 5starpix

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    #43
    Guy: Umm..you know what to do? :confused:
    Girl: Nope. You? :confused:
    Guy: Nope :(
    Girl: :mad:

    LOL

    I am not saying this is what will/does happen.
     
    5starpix, Feb 13, 2010 IP
  4. ar.anandan

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    #44
    I think no more sex experience is required before marraige .
     
    ar.anandan, Feb 13, 2010 IP