and like all the rules in the ODP its a rule of thumb... look at the special treatment Topix gets. Listed by a bot, no original content, tens of thousands of not just listings, but deep link listings. But yes, adding your own site is WELL within the rules, as is being a professional link builder and adding in your client sites.... so long as you don't treat the site any different.
I am sure as you have read the top ten threads here that your statement is of no surprise to anyone and should not be to you. It is likely you will NOT be listed in DMOZ
I am sure if the op did read the threads the op would know that it can take from a few days to a few years to get a review. If it is listable it will be listed when a volunteer editor chooses to work on that area and chooses to use the suggestions pool as their resource. Thanks for your cooperation.