SEO is really pretty easy if you just read a few ebooks on it (free). Just do research for a few months and continue practicing. In a years time you will be a lot better, trust me. As long as you think of it as your weakness it will always be that, a weakness. Reframe your thinking into "SEO is something I am learning, and I will get much better with study and practice."
But in forums we get different links from different pages.I guess it helps otherwise in almost every article ppl won't have talked about forum posting.