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I'm married and I flirt, do you?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Kyliemeg, Jun 18, 2013.

  1. syda

    syda Well-Known Member

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    #21
    I'm never getting married if it means I can't flirt anymore....
    But seriously, everyone likes some attention, you don't even intentionally have to flirt but you do want to look better than you are and you want people to like you so you flirt even if you don't mean no harm.
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    syda, Jun 28, 2013 IP
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  2. Mashal Saleem

    Mashal Saleem Greenhorn

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    #22
    You're right. You're not dead, you're just an immature attention seeker.
    If you're leading other guys on, then that's seriously messed up. What if your husband does the same thing?
    Ask yourself this: Why do you feel the need to flirt around? There must be something missing in your marriage, or something is just wrong with your attitude.
     
    Mashal Saleem, Jun 28, 2013 IP
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    casy weby Greenhorn

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    #23
    think and feel if your spouse does the same thing! if it doesn't hurt you, there must be something wrong with you :D
     
    casy weby, Jun 30, 2013 IP
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    Terry Bogard Greenhorn

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    #24
    My 2 cents..
    Flirting should be allowed only if you do it with the women/man yyou get married to...
    Its not only men who flirt :)
     
    Terry Bogard, Jul 6, 2013 IP
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    radium Active Member

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    #25
    Oh, Does she know that?
     
    radium, Jul 6, 2013 IP
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    GeeOne Well-Known Member

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    #26

    I would say, if you are married and still flirting!

    This can be very danger....

    G!
     
    GeeOne, Jul 6, 2013 IP
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    Spoiltdiva Illustrious Member

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    #27
    This is very true Gee, because if he is caught then his wife might hit him over the head with an iron frying pan. Then he would be flirting with the nurses in the hospital.:eek:
     
    Spoiltdiva, Jul 6, 2013 IP
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    GeeOne Well-Known Member

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    #28
    Lol, he will flirt there also :)

    And imagine if he caught there........

    G!
     
    GeeOne, Jul 6, 2013 IP
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    dcristo Illustrious Member

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    #29
    Really classy way to promote your site OP. Does your husband not give you enough attention? I am guessing he does, but you're just an attention seeking whore. Purely speculating, though.
     
    dcristo, Jul 6, 2013 IP
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    techdomain Well-Known Member

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    #30
    Flirt only if both you and your partner are swingers or intend to go down that lane.
    Or else, dont do it or dont get caught!
     
    techdomain, Jul 6, 2013 IP
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    VukasinI Well-Known Member

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    #31
    I only flirt with a cops so I can avoid the ticket...It never worked, but I never stop trying.. Maybe I need boobies. :D
     
    VukasinI, Jul 6, 2013 IP
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    #32
    Basic Instinct- cannot suppress thousands of years of genetic coding.
     
    scurvy, Jul 7, 2013 IP
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    #33
    Well then if you still flirt while you're married, then you definitely shouldn't have married at all.
    Being married means to be faithful with your partner, and flirting can only lead you to want to be with other people other than your partner. That's unacceptable for me, tbh.
     
    mjoyd, Jul 13, 2013 IP
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    #34
    What is flirting in your perspective?
     
    robbydeletter, Jul 13, 2013 IP
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    #35
    In my opiniom there's nothing wrong with flirting, of course only if you do it having your limits.You can be always open to everybody as long you keep the ethical barrier that never gets passed.Try to talk with your man about this ( spontaneity should be present in every relationship ) try and do different things, doesn't have to be something special as long as you both share interest it can be anything, diversity can be the rule.Don't wait for your partener to take action, do it yourself, this is a game...and it can't be played alone, try and make it appealing for both of you (there's nothing to lose, exploring never gets boring).Make sure to add some perseverence and consistency...

    Back to flirting...you can flirt and most probably you will flirt but as long as you have him / her ( that special one ) in mind there's nothing to it.
     
    xeod, Jul 13, 2013 IP
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    #36
    If you're flirting, there something wrong with your wife :)
     
    jackburd, Jul 13, 2013 IP
  17. Diana271

    Diana271 Peon

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    #37
    I think that there is some kind of a problem between you as a couple. Otherwise you should be satisfied with what you have. I think that what it is missing is honest conversation. Because flirting is making you feel stronger, you want to see yourself from the eyes of the others, but it is ruining your marrige, no matter if you understand that now. I have a boyfriend, and I admit that thee are moments when I want to flirt with other men, but then I just talk with my boyfriend to understand what is going wrong and to fix things. I do not take him for granted, nobody is. If you love somebody, you have to prove that each single day. Do not appreciate something when it is gone, estimate it now. Marrige is a wonderful step in relationships, so keep it real without hidden things.
     
    Diana271, Aug 1, 2013 IP