I'm a shy guy, what could I do for have a girlfriend?

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  1. Code170

    Code170 Well-Known Member

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    #41
    all girls in Thailand seek (sida )
     
    Code170, Jul 11, 2009 IP
  2. LinkWheel

    LinkWheel Peon

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    #42
    Watch Bollywood movie "Rab ne Bana Di Jodi" :p :p :p :p
     
    LinkWheel, Jul 11, 2009 IP
  3. vonbuck

    vonbuck Peon

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    #43
    it's ok for a girl to be shy but not for a guy.
     
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  4. howareyou

    howareyou Peon

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    #44
    Maybe, I think i'm a unlucky guy not shy:(
     
    howareyou, Jul 15, 2009 IP
  5. zoogo

    zoogo Peon

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    #45
    I would say, as someone who is a successful relationship coach, just do it.

    But you won't.

    So stop masturbating until your hormones force you to go get a girlfriend.

    But you won't.

    So go out every day and be around women but don't approach them and see how it feels to be just one "hi" away from meeting a new person, regarldess of if it goes anywhere or not.

    But you won't.

    So keep looking on the internet for some nice guy to sugar coat these truths for you or baby you or trick you into buying some stuff until you feel like you got the balls you had all along but didn't give yourself permission to use them.

    If you don't get off your ass, no one will.

    You wanna be a failure in something you want? Keep down the road.

    You wanna succeed? Go do something about it.

    Can't? Why? You crippled? Have no voice? Can't write on paper? Those are the only excuses, and poor ones at that.

    If you really wanted it you would go get it. I know tons of guys who are depressed and have girlfriends - everyone has problems man. The difference between winners and loser is one thing and one thing only in this life: the winners accept their problems and see what they can do about them, and the losers just keep thinking about their problems, trying to deny them, or worrying about what will happen.
     
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  6. noneed

    noneed Active Member

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    #46
    Thats one truth of life, one needs to accept it.

    Better be yourself, look for someone with similar interests and you will do good. :)
     
    noneed, Jul 15, 2009 IP
  7. AvW

    AvW Peon

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  8. twotango

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    #48
    Have you ever tried to look for SHY GIRL? lol
     
    twotango, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  9. Onlinesupplies

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    #49
    Pretty much sums up the thread really :)
     
    Onlinesupplies, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  10. postworker

    postworker Greenhorn

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    #50
    if you got it big ..they'll come for you :p
     
    postworker, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  11. Abhik

    Abhik ..:: The ONE ::..

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    #51
    Well, you must get rid of your shyness first :p
     
    Abhik, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  12. cricketer

    cricketer Banned

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    #52
    incease yr pocket balance ,be stylist like hero ,and then u wll have the girl u like.
     
    cricketer, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  13. Susan Zhang

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    #53
    Try to make more friends. You can change your characters gradually.;)
     
    Susan Zhang, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  14. Small Potato

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    #54
    tell her i love you..lolx
     
    Small Potato, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  15. khateya

    khateya Well-Known Member

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    #55
    I guess it is only most of girl not all! Hope that you can find the one who don't need your pocket!

    Oh in case you can't find, hope that you can make a big pocket for them! :D
     
    khateya, Jul 16, 2009 IP
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    #56
    Realize what you have going for yourself, and stick to your strengths. Pick up some hobbies, learn to play an instrument, start exercising or sports, start a business. Be ambitious, find something you like to do. Start small with something and build your confidence. You'll like yourself more and then so will the ladies. A sense of humor would help too. I know what it's like to be shy and insecure, it can be quite an uphill struggle. Just take baby steps, and keep aiming for your goal, you'll hit it eventually.
     
    cdl285, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  17. VBK

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    #57
    If you are sad.. dont look for a girl friend.. they make you even more sad :D
     
    VBK, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  18. winningdesired

    winningdesired Peon

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    #58
    No Need to do too much effort just meet with her as you are.
     
    winningdesired, Jul 16, 2009 IP
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    #59
    Because you have reached nirvana ...... don't like anything :p
     
    gsv13, Jul 16, 2009 IP
  20. FlyingToTheMoon

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    #60
    just be yourself...
    you must confident with your personal...
    and don forget to try...
    experience is the best teacher right?
    :)
     
    FlyingToTheMoon, Jul 16, 2009 IP