I would say, as someone who is a successful relationship coach, just do it. But you won't. So stop masturbating until your hormones force you to go get a girlfriend. But you won't. So go out every day and be around women but don't approach them and see how it feels to be just one "hi" away from meeting a new person, regarldess of if it goes anywhere or not. But you won't. So keep looking on the internet for some nice guy to sugar coat these truths for you or baby you or trick you into buying some stuff until you feel like you got the balls you had all along but didn't give yourself permission to use them. If you don't get off your ass, no one will. You wanna be a failure in something you want? Keep down the road. You wanna succeed? Go do something about it. Can't? Why? You crippled? Have no voice? Can't write on paper? Those are the only excuses, and poor ones at that. If you really wanted it you would go get it. I know tons of guys who are depressed and have girlfriends - everyone has problems man. The difference between winners and loser is one thing and one thing only in this life: the winners accept their problems and see what they can do about them, and the losers just keep thinking about their problems, trying to deny them, or worrying about what will happen.
Thats one truth of life, one needs to accept it. Better be yourself, look for someone with similar interests and you will do good.
I guess it is only most of girl not all! Hope that you can find the one who don't need your pocket! Oh in case you can't find, hope that you can make a big pocket for them!
Realize what you have going for yourself, and stick to your strengths. Pick up some hobbies, learn to play an instrument, start exercising or sports, start a business. Be ambitious, find something you like to do. Start small with something and build your confidence. You'll like yourself more and then so will the ladies. A sense of humor would help too. I know what it's like to be shy and insecure, it can be quite an uphill struggle. Just take baby steps, and keep aiming for your goal, you'll hit it eventually.
just be yourself... you must confident with your personal... and don forget to try... experience is the best teacher right?