If you listen to women talk about men, you'll often hear them use the word "ANNOYING" to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO. Now, as you can probably guess, it's not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy... And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it's not usually about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this isn't always true but in most cases it happens). The question is why does it have to be that way?