i thought she liked me

he was probably referring to analyzing relationships.

and let's not be sexist and respect the fellow gals in this forum even thow most women like to have a dominating male...

 

Not being sexist... lots of girls find guys hard to read aswell

 

most of us are hard to read because we aren't unveiling our feelings and thoughts to them as much as they would like, but that's appealing to them and keeps them interested; afterall what's life without a little twist. Getting to know somebody takes a lot of time, some strategy, awareness, observation and trust from both parties to open to eachother.

Good advice for the young fellow in need here.

 

Exactly right.

Hard to read = challenging = fun and exciting

I want to know what he ends up doing and how it works out!

 

Hard to read= a pain= I'm moving on.

 

Did you get that out of a chinese-food menu? If not, you should be writing for chinese food menus.

 

Don't try to understand women they are twisted and hard to understand (themselfs)

 

I don't see why you wouldn't move on, unless you're committed.

they're not worthy of my learnings.

 

Because men are always an open book, right?

 

You meant underestimate...nobody is. Yes, some women are hard to get too and that's what intrigues us men, for the most part, it's not just to get in their pants.

 

Denise = Has an answer for everything I say = such a pain = I'm moving on

It's about getting it right. Too easy, and she'll lose interest. Too hard, and she'll never get you. The best way I've found is play hard to get, then once its pretty obvious she likes me, THEN I start to let her know that I like her.

 

replying to what post?

 

I have an answer when I have something relevant to say.

Ya'll make it way too hard. I don't know what kind of girls you are interested in, but I don't play games. If I like someone, I like them. If they like me, great! Don't play games. If they don't like me... that's cool. I'm out. But I hate mixed messages, and no rational girl I know would appreciate mind games.

EDIT:

Alex, not yours.

 

heh i wish all girls were like that

 

Straight forward is always the best way, but what's too much?

I mean I good just go up to any girl and tell her how fucken beautiful she is and I want her, but I'd look like a prick or a demented sex addict. So twist is needed, 9/10 times, riddles and games make a relationships stronger

 

You are getting hung up on this game thing. No-one likes to be screwed around.

What I'm saying, which I'm sure you agree with me on, is that if they are open with everything then they are boring and you lose interest. If they are too hard and keep messing around with you, they are too weird and you lose interest.

Also, if I've met you and 5 minutes later you're all over me, I'll be going wtf and will leave. However if you show a bit of interest, enough so I know you like me, but not too much that you seem desperate, then that's okay.

 

point made

 

I didn't say I was a whore. I said I was straightforward. I wouldn't "be all over you 5 minutes later."

No one likes to be screwed around, but plenty of people love screwing WITH people, it seems.

I'm not saying I want a guy to come up to me and tell me his life story within 10 minutes of meeting him. Alex says riddles and games make a relationship stronger? I disagree.

You say to show a bit of interest so you don't come off as desperate, I do agree with you on that point.

 

works for me and good things happen everytime, I'm not talking sex.

 

I'm glad it works for you. It doesn't work for me. I am merely stating my opinions.