i thought she liked me

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by mybluehair, Jun 23, 2007.

  1. #1
    so i need some girl help. im not 18 yet, but close so...idk. anyway me and my ex broke up, and her friend (girl) started emailing me. and i thought she liked me.
    she sayed:
    hey. i do like u. caitlin said you were wondering so yeah i do. she said you might like me too. do you?
    I sayed:
    yes...sorta...
    she sayed:
    u like me? aww. no way. thats cool. u made my day. -lol-

    but that last thing she sayed its like... aww, you made my day. not like...cool, wanna go out, or anything like that. so what does that mean? i need advice
     
    mybluehair, Jun 23, 2007 IP
  2. CountryBoy

    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    #2
    Means she's happy that you like her - unless she's being sarcastic (you would know better). I think you're in with a chance there. Go for the jugular boy!
     
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  3. karl turnbull

    karl turnbull Peon

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    lol , i feel like an agony uncle :D go for it dude , she is mad for it ;)
     
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    Padawan Peon

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    #4
    Assume she likes you and when you are going out next time ask her to tag along. If she says no, it's no biggie.. women are everywhere!
     
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    #5
    Lol, I wouldn't. Personally, I've had really bad experiences when dating an ex's friend. It's just not something to do, imo.

    If you really like her, I guess, why not, ask her out. What can happen? If she says no, just ask someone else out. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
     
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    simnorwebdesign Peon

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    #6
    What a cliche, anyway, go for it but dont go to fast, take it easy, hang out for a bit and then if she shows any more interest then get in there before its too late

    She asked the question first, so she must like u else she is just been cruel by asking that question, if that is the case are u sure u want to go out with some1 like that, its ure call mate, she seems to like u, get in there son.
     
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  7. 8everything

    8everything Peon

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    #7
    Buahaha, don't you love how confusing girls are ? :p

    Girls can like boys, but it doesn't mean they want a relationship right away :eek: unless she really REALLY REALLY liked you
     
    8everything, Jun 23, 2007 IP
  8. Vadym

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    I hate you and your kind so much. :);)
     
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  9. 8everything

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    #9
    No seriously, I can't even understand girls. There are lots of things that are said :p haha it's confusing.. they can say one thing and mean another. You gotta be their female friends to understand them!
     
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    #10
    hey wait.... why are you thinking so much? Just go ahead and you will get the answer ;)

    If yes then take it for granted and if no then take it easy ;) and follow the good words from friends :D
     
    seospider, Jun 23, 2007 IP
  11. mybluehair

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    but how do i know?
     
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    #12
    If you start second guessing the situation then you'll end up looking insecure in her eyes. That's why I say assume she likes you and see where that takes you. Worst that can happen is she rejects you but that's infinitely less hurtful than living with the fact that you didn't have the guts to take a chance.
     
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    Me,too! I cannot understand them either. For example: My mom will say one thing and mean or do another. :confused: :eek:
     
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  14. 8everything

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    #14
    You will have to ask her straight forward and maybe she'll give you a straight forward answer too..

    @FOX_LORE: Parents :p some are just hypocrites :p
     
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    I would suggest that you act like you don't care- even if you do. Sounds like she is flattered, but doesn't want to pursue anything. This can be because you dated her friend, or a number of reasons. I would suggest you keep talking to her on a friend-to-friend level until you get to know each other more. Then, when the time is right, casually ask her if she wants to go see a movie you think will be nice (and you conveniently have no one to go with). Or tell her your celebrating something, and want to go out and eat. (I used my first $1,000 earned online as means of celebration, and used this same trick to get a girl that acted the same way to go to dinner with me. It works :))

    Good luck.
     
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    #16
    dude just send her an email or get her on msn :) tell her you have the hots for her , simple as that , you will know within a few seconds if she really feels the same :)

    NOTE , anyone else who requires the agony aunt services of uncle karl please dial this premium rate number 0845111111111111 (all calls are charged at $19 a minute, please dont ask your parents permission before calling)
    i will be more than happy to help ;)
     
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    #17
    If he said "I have the hots for you" that would be one hard slap on the face :p lol jk... wow not that straight forward.
     
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  18. karl turnbull

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    #18
    hehehehehehe all joking aside dude , how long is it since you broke up with your ex girlfriend , if it is only a week or so ( dont go jumping into another relationship straight away ) give yourself a bit of time :) and one thing that springs to mind is that this new girl you are on about is a friend of your ex ;) maybe she will need a bit time before going out with you , as she will probably not want to upset your ex ( as they are friends )
     
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    Hey mybluehair, 8everything is here so you should follow her advice ;). Nobody can advice you better about a girl's feelings ;)

    So far as I know its depth is deeper than the ocean :)
     
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    Katy Moderator Staff

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    #20
    Excuse me, but the first thing that comes up to my mind is that she just made fun of you.


    lol :D

    Good luck though.
     
    Katy, Jun 23, 2007 IP