I went to your site and all I had done there was "Search For Content". I did not find any content, in the sense, worth reading for the first time visitor to stick on and check out the site. And you idea that Blogs get very less traffic is False. As, bloggers around DP often get 1000s of visitors per day. All the best moving ahead.
So if you need a lot of traffic to your site then you promote it in a natural but effective way.. Try to be patient and be good at all times...
That is the ugliest and most useless site I have seen in a long time. My suggestion: give up now and get a job at McDonald's flipping burgers.
I'll also say your site needs a complete overhaul. First get rid of all of those ads, I didn't see one piece of useful content on the site. Content is king today. People go online to either find information or purchase something. It doesn't matter if you're trying to convert buyers or information seekers you still need to have great content on that site. You useful information that will keep your visitors coming back and to make your site worth being ranked high in the search engines for relevant keywords on your topic. Spend time figuring out what niche you want to go into. Pick a niche that you like yet is also able to be monetized. Getting traffic is about having good content, people will find it, link to it, share it with other people, etc... Having great content is one of the best traffic building methods and a very important foundation of any website. When you have great content that is worth reading or viewing than start using traffic building methods. Hope that helps
If your website having a blog so update it twice or thrice a week and do social bookmarking of blog, article submission, news submission. Place classifieds in free ads websites. Submission in CSS directories.