firstly, wondering if anyone knows any forums/sites for discussing or needing personal support? Also for uk criminal law? I just dont know where to begin. to cut it short, the woman whom I loved, as did she, overreacted big time again.... and ended it and put me in ALOT of trouble all because of her friends but also because of her own guilt and possibly cheating even though she said we are committed, devoted and dedicated. she has 2 kids of her own also, but we also were heading in the direction of marriage - so yes, it is a big deal. she accused me of something that did not happen, nor am i that type, she knows that as well as my friends and I am just so scared and worried. i dont know what to do. yes im seeking legal advice but it is taking its time and not getting anywhere yet (only had 2 meetings which I had to pay for!) hearing so many different things but the way its heading, there doesnt seem to be a way of proving my defence or innocence. im so alone. so stuck, fed up, depressed and just sick and heartbroken. its not good and I thought she was mature. helped her so much including giving her alot of money for cancelling an eviction that was going to take place, running everywhere worried sick when she got admitted to the hospital, when her eldest son was acting up, when her ex husband was putting her down over the phone - the list goes on. i took on ALOT in a short space but all good.... obviously not now. :-/ everyday and night, weekend, i wonder what she is up to. I probably do know...and its SICK especially after everything we agreed on and talked about which brought us together so much more. but i am trying to focus on the main issue right now, which is the trouble she has put me in, and its deep.
pm me the kind of trouble you are in. I will start researching some places to get free legal help online.
Sorry i cant offer personal advice as im not familar with uk but please hang in there - things seem bad now but if you are indeed innocent of the claims then you have to have faith that the truth will come out and your be vindicated my friend Its seems a right mess and unfortunate situation as you seemed to really care and try your hardest to help you ex. Maybe she was not happy in the relationship and was not genuine so just resorted to using such tactics to end the relationship instead of being mature and talking properly It sounds like your life will be better off with out her in the long run - once the pain resides Just try to stay active and find activities like physical and social outlets to help you get by and move on good luck friend - hope to see you post some good news back here soon ok
I hope you are not going to Blow your top and do something silly. If she just want out, let her go. There are plenty of girls out there.