I have dated a girl for seven monthes.She lives in china and i have given her a huge sum of money to her.The money is more than ten thousand singapore dollars in total.I gave her the money over a period of seven monthes.She said she needed it for her father's heart problems.She also have slight heart problem plus liver problems. My parents do not approve of it and therefore i am facing difficulties.They threaten to cut off all my allowance to prevent me from giving money to her.I really love her and im planning to marry her in 5 years time after i get my degree hopefully.What should i do now?Do i have to let her go or should i hold on to my relationship?Will i be able to survive with my allowance with her?What is the best thing to do.Im going to army soon and have to study igcse as my studies are not really good at the moment.
Have you ever really met her before for you to trust her? If you really love her, it's also important to pray for her...
I'm not sure dishing your money out to strangers is such a good idea. But I'd be happy to take some off you if you really need to get rid.
I'd drop her like a hot potato. You've never met her?? Those feelings you have are only an infatuation not real love. Listen to mom and dad and quit throwing your money away to a gold digger.
giving away money to a girl you havent met = silly are you sure she is really a girl not some man posing as a girl to scam your money?
theres nothing for me to do.Alls done is done.Im left with nothing now absolutely nothing.Feels stupid when u think about it sometimes.Just hope putting in little money will help me solve my problem enough to cover and stuff.For some reason i just refuse to give up
i think you need to get a life and find someone who you actually met!! Jeez dude, sort it out, can you not see the heart and liver problem was bullshit, she gonna do a runner with your monies!!