Try using TrafficRevenue They are a great impressions company. Depends where your traffic is coming from though. They have a list of countries and the amount s they pay on the home page of there website. They have a great customer service aswell where you can go and chat to Tom (the owner) directly in a chatroom. or speak to him here on DP, his username is tomksoft. Hope this helps in some way jamesbala.
if you have 1000 visits a day then you can try google adsense .i think you already doing then try any affiliate programs.
Blacklabelads are best for adult content. By the way, how do you get your visitors ? Organic SEO ? Is the blog totally adult ?
You can use cpc and cpm such as adsense, clicksor and bidvertiser then cpm are trafficrevenure, cpx and advpoint
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