I don't wanna be a felon :S

Discussion in 'Legal Issues' started by kc3, Aug 9, 2006.

  1. sundaybrew

    sundaybrew Numerati

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    #21

    Yea , Look at Judge Mathis on TV , He was a criminal , Now he is a Judge

    He even says that on the open prompt of the show....Stay Strong..Make NEW freinds

    http://www.askjudgemathis.com/show.html
     
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  2. timw

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    #22
    Good luck buddy. Wish you the best.
     
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  3. kc3

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    #23
    Thanks :) I'm not being accused of doing it against her will, I live in Idaho and it's one of few states where you have to be 18 to do *anything* sexual. She legaly has no consent so even if it's not against her will it's legaly rape. Well, thanks everyone for your support :) I REALLY need it
     
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  4. mcfox

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    #24
    Oral sex is not rape. It is sexual assualt in the circumstances you give.
     
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  5. kc3

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    #25
    Well, alright, well, it's sexual abuse I'm being charged with. lol Close enough :p
     
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  6. danielbruzual

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    #26
    I'm not familiar with american law, but can't you just flea to another state?

    Anyways, I would suggest deciding what you want to do when you get out of jail and buy some books and get informed in the subject. The best thing you can do is start your own business with your family (they will not judge you just because you were in the slammer) and this way you don't have to put up with anyone's crap.
     
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  7. kc3

    kc3 Peon

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    #27
    In America if you flee to another state they just go after ya ;) The state you're in looks for you. But yeah, I hope I don't go, but who knows. Thanks for the advice :)
     
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  8. mcfox

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    #28
    So, reading between the lines; you performed oral sex on a 15 year-old girl, a person whom you knew to be underage at the time?

    What puzzles me is how this indiscretion came to light? What also puzzles me is why you admitted it in the first place? Unless it was on the advice of a lawyer, of course.

    It seems to me that there's a little more to this, no?

    I suggest you think long and hard before you decide whether or not to answer those questions. Who knows? There may be a reason to confiscate your computer for further investigations. Probably best not to confirm or deny such things on an open forum on the internet.
     
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  9. dotcomguy

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    #29
    I agree, Its probably best not to disscus a pending case on a forum.
     
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  10. KingSEO

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    #30
    For the sake of the american legal system, I almost hope so :(
     
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  11. kc3

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    #31
    Who said I ever admitted to it? And they are saying she performed it on me. Also they did confiscate one of my computers but it took a week for them to log it into evidence so it's unuseable and I was forced to give it to them without a warrent therefore they cannot use it and I could file a lawsuit. They screwed up on this case so much. Also, I'm not saying wether or not I'm innocent on this forum just for the fact that's it's not good to discuss.
     
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  12. eddy2099

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    #32
    I believe your best option would be to talk to your lawyer about this. He should know best.
     
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  13. kc3

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    #33
    Yeah, I'm just talking to people here for moral support. lol, I just saw that they messed up on some of their evidence and I can prove it from the property reciept I have. Also, I figured I should tell why I won't say if I'm innocent or guilty here because some people may have assumptions. The reason has nothing to do with wether or not I am guilty but because either one I say people will say things either like "You should've thought about that" or "than you have nothing to worry about" and that's not the kind of thing I wanna read. Anyhow, thanks people for your support. :)
     
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  14. Bender

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    #34
    I'm sure everything will turn out ok. And even if you do a few months, who cares? We are not in the middle ages anymore, it's not like you are gonna have a tag on you or smth...Don't worry!

    Best of luck to you!
     
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  15. eddy2099

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    #35
    I think the biggest issue about being convicted is not the jail sentence but being recorded in the sexual predator database which can be quite a big black mark to your name.
     
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  16. brandnewx

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    #36
    kc3, you raped the girl or it was agreed? Look like raping to me.

    If so, you'll gonna get tagged "i was a raper". And you know, some bosses hate rapers.
     
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  17. codyturk

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    #37
    Get a good laywer. Have him point out that your attending school and getting good grades. Do community service and just maybe you might beable to get a plea bargain. Depending on how serious the crime was you may get 2-5 years of probation and several hundred hours of community service. Make sure your laywer can have your felony charges erased from your record if you complete school, complete your community service, and stay clean. A lawyer in this situation will be worth it.

    Also if this is the first time you have been in trouble you are more than likely going to get probation. But while your on probation you will be a felony/sex offender.

    Good luck to you man.
     
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  18. fryman

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    #38
    Watch out when you drop the soap...
     
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  19. kc3

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    #39
    lol, okay fryman. And brandnewx what do you mean raper? I would never rape someone and I'm not being accused of it. I'm being accused of having an under-aged girl give me head and in my state the age of consent is 18.
     
    kc3, Aug 14, 2006 IP
  20. mcfox

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    #40
    I'll be honest - I don't know whether to give you a difficult time or offer you my best wishes :confused:

    Obviously, an underage girl giving you a bj is not particularly worthy of sympathy but the circumstances and the age difference seem to merit a more sympathetic response. :rolleyes:

    On a useless information point, I can tell you that had it happened in the uk, the age of consent is 16 and not 18.
     
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